Share the true story around me. My mother-in-law's second aunt is 83 years old. She has basically lost the ability to take care of herself independently. Fortunately, the four children at home take turns to take care of her, and she can still maintain her dignity and dignity. Do you think that providing for four children means that the children are always with you, talking and laughing, just like the old lady in a dream of red mansions? That's impossible. The old-age care for poor families is to give you a bowl of rice when eating and buy clothes for you on holidays, so that you won't be hungry and cold, and you want more spiritual companionship and communication with your children, provided that you have money and your children are free.
It is said that the more children there are, the more secure their old age will be, but what I see is that four children shirk their responsibilities and provide for the elderly. Big brother said? Oh, my brother is too busy at work. Why don't you look after him for two more days this month? . Second brother said? Gee, big brother's life is also very difficult. Let the elder sister take care of it. ? Big sister said? Dude, aren't you embarrassing your sister Sister, you have to help your daughter with the children. Why don't you give it to your little sister? ? Miss Jie is anxious to dance square dance.
Like playing football, four people kicked the 80-year-old mother around. In this process, the old mother deeply felt the coldness of the world. When the four brothers and sisters got together, my sister said to her brothers in front of her mother. You said mom and dad were incompetent, so why did you have so many children? . Several brothers and sisters all laughed. The speaker was careless, but the audience was very interested. The 80-year-old mother felt harsh. At the thought of the cold reception in recent years, she couldn't get over it and secretly took the rat poison.
People will get old one day. Today is our tomorrow. When you carry a child on your back, you have too little respect for the elderly. Children will become people like you when they grow up, and then form a cycle of fate. I can only say that I caused it myself, and I can't blame others. If you set an example from an early age and teach your children to respect the elderly and honor their elders, your children will naturally become like you when they grow up. No matter what their relationship is, the treatment of the elderly in society is in urgent need of improvement. Moreover, people should also face up to the thoughts and needs of the elderly, and don't always regard the elderly as their own burden. Many times, the rich experience of the elderly can give us a lot of guidance. Although what they say is not pleasant to listen to, they are often platitudes, but with them, the roots are there. With them, I can always be a child.
It is the biggest regret in the world that children want to raise and not kiss. I once saw an old couple in their 70 s in the park, pushing their parents in their 90 s in a wheelchair, and was instantly moved by this picture. At the age of 70 and 80, there are parents who need to take care of themselves. What a happy thing it is. Parents are here, life is still there, parents are gone, and life is only home.
In fact, providing for the aged is a very heavy topic. The elderly are a vulnerable group in this society. As they grow older, they gradually lose the ability to live independently. How to make the old people walk with dignity is a topic that everyone should think about. Today, China has become the fastest aging area in the world and will enter an aging society in 2050. At that time, it is still unknown how the elderly should live, whether the pension system is sound and complete, and whether China is fully prepared to enter an aging society. We never know what will happen in the future and cherish ourselves, but doing good deeds and respecting every old person around us means doing good deeds for our future.