How to deal with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

Mother-in-law is not a mother, who want to take the mother-in-law as a mother, who is really stupid. Distance produces beauty, far from the fragrance of the near stink, have the conditions of their own over, do not come together. The mother-in-law to your home, take her as a guest, guest? It is good to eat and drink good hospitality, hospitality, respect and distance, the world is flat.

For the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship, this has always been a headache. "When mom and daughter-in-law fell into the water at the same time, you will save who?" This question is also entangled men for many years. In order not to let the male compatriots sandwiched between mom and daughter-in-law left and right, but also for the sake of family harmony and happiness, the coordination of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is really vital. So, how can we deal with the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship? Here are a few lessons for you.

1, it is best not to let your mother-in-law take care of the month.

The mother-to-be is most likely to be sensitive and not very emotionally stable during the monthly period, and it is difficult to control her temper. In addition, the first time a mother, a variety of care for the child want to excel, and the mother-in-law's parenting concepts and methods can not be completely consistent with their own. It is at times like these that conflicts are most likely to erupt. The most difficult to repair the contradictions in the month, so if you have the conditions, or hire a sister-in-law, or, let their own mother to take care of the month of their own.

2. Don't get into a head-on conflict with your mother-in-law.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the easiest to deteriorate, once torn face, to maintain the surface of the harmony, it will be more difficult. Therefore, even if both sides regard each other as a thorn in the side and a thorn in the ear, don't say the complaints and resentment in your heart to each other's face. Just like the number of cheating only once and countless times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to the number of positive conflicts only once and countless times.

3, learn to please your mother-in-law.

Women are sensual animals, who are good to themselves, they will double the good to whom. Usually buy your mother-in-law a few pieces of clothing, a few pairs of shoes, so that not only can she feel you want to deal with the relationship between the two sides of the heart, but also let others see your mother-in-law's good, to meet the mother-in-law heard others praise after the vanity.

4, always be grateful.

For the mother-in-law, her son has become a family, she came to help with the children, cooking, hygiene are in the son and grandchildren (daughter), to help you reduce the burden, if you not only do not appreciate her, but also pick on her, that contradiction is inevitable. For the daughter-in-law, her husband has formed a family with himself, the mother-in-law should see the daughter-in-law's efforts and hard work, find their own position, do not interfere with the life of the young couple, do not tell them what to do.

5, learn to tolerate.

There are no two identical leaves in the world, nor are there two identical people. Two complete strangers to the woman, because the same man to live together, the middle is still separated by a generation gap of twenty years, to get along harmoniously, the difficulty can be imagined. This requires us to have a tolerant heart, tolerate each other's shortcomings, tolerate each other and their own inconsistencies, accept each other and the fact that they have a generation gap. Seek common ground while reserving differences, so that we can respond to all changes.

6, do not be afraid to suffer.

I heard such a small story: my mother-in-law likes to dance, and often call a large group of people at home to eat, exchange feelings. Each time, the mother-in-law handed over 200 dollars to the daughter-in-law, so that the daughter-in-law to help themselves to prepare a table meal. But how can 200 dollars be enough? So the daughter-in-law took the initiative to pay out of her own pocket every time, and the meal she prepared for her mother-in-law won the appreciation of her friends many times. The mother-in-law felt very honored and often praised her daughter-in-law in front of her friends. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is handled very harmoniously. People love face, if you don't care, not afraid to suffer, before people give each other face, that harmony is a very easy thing!

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