Of course, some people think so. Are you willing to be ordinary all your life? So what's the point of such a life? Then what's the point of living well? Some people have made many plans and completed them one by one. Some people live a life of commuting every day, and everyone has a choice. What kind of life he chooses, ordinary or extraordinary, is his own business.
What kind of life is complete? Is it worth living? In fact, many people have thought about this situation. Of course, the best way to live is family health and physical and mental health. After that, life is enough with a little money. Therefore, before the end of life, we can choose not to leave regrets, or we can choose to leave regrets, but in the end, we all hope to finish this journey happily.
If you follow your heart, follow your heart, you have no regrets. In life, you make your own decisions, and others have no right to interfere. Therefore, you don't have to care about other people's eyes or please everyone. If you see through everything, you will find that you are relaxed and happy from now on. So, in your short life, what you have to do is how to please yourself and how to make yourself happy. People only need to do two things well in this life, and don't understand it too late.
1 please yourself in fact, in real life, you see more phenomena like that. In order to please the boss, employees would rather be clowns. In order to attract friendship, friends are willing to do anything and have love. In order to be alone, they can give up everything and love humbly. Everything they do is to please themselves, but they ignore their own ideas. Let yourself live wronged and make yourself uncomfortable. This meanness cannot win the gratitude of others. After all, it's you who feel bad about being wronged.
Social development is like this, you have to bow your head, you have to hide yourself and let yourself live a false life. It's like talking to people. It's full of crap. If it's someone who is sincere to you, you don't need to be humble to please, and you don't need to wronged yourself. So, you don't need to compromise for everyone. You can't lower your bottom line, otherwise others will trample on your dignity and don't care much about your emotions. You are like a pumpkin, held in your hand and teased at will.
Therefore, whether friends or relatives, you can avoid people who are not good to you, and I don't need to please them. You should learn to please yourself and live happily. You don't need to interfere in other people's affairs, which have nothing to do with you.
2 Live your own life Sometimes, all you have to do is follow your heart, follow your heart, don't be wronged, don't be humble. Life is a mobile phone game, you are the protagonist, and only you can concentrate on your own life. Your life depends on yourself. Many things, you haven't had time to regret, or you can't do it in time, so face the reality frankly and let nature take its course. Live your life well, as long as you think about what you are happy about, you will do it unswervingly, no matter what other people's perspectives are. Work hard to realize your dream, and one day, you will shine.
In addition, there are many things that you have tried your best, but have not yet reached your favorite norms, so let nature take its course and don't force yourself. You should live your own life and do what you want, whether it is unsuccessful or successful, without referring to other people's lifestyles.
One's life is to learn to be true to oneself, not to hide or please. In addition, people who learn endlessly can't go backwards at any time in their lives, but keep moving forward. It takes constant diligence to make your life more and more exciting and to move towards the life you want. In this life, you only need to do two things well, that is, please yourself, live your life well, and don't care about the worldly vision.