The marriage talk broke down unhappily, even though my family asked for the bride price is not much at all, just go through the motions. But the mother-in-law just do not agree, biting dead no bride price, love to marry not married. My parents were furious, but I could not stop me from insisting, and finally the marriage was concluded, after a simple wedding, I began my married life. The first thing I want to do is to get my hands on a new car, and then I'll be able to get a new car, and then I'll be able to get a new car.
The two of us have been working for a few years, and our savings are not much, and almost all of them have been spent in the marriage, so we can't afford to buy a house, so we can only live in our mother-in-law's house after marriage. The first time I saw this was when I was a kid, and it was the first time I'd ever seen a kid in my life, and it was the first time I'd ever seen a kid in my life. However, after I moved in, my mother-in-law took over and asked my husband and son not to help. She has the time, began to be obsessed with square dancing, but also with her husband to go out, back to eat hot food and hot meals, no began to sneer.
But whenever I want to let her help a favor, she either said that the housework is the daughter-in-law's share of the work, or said that they are not comfortable, all day either dizziness or back pain. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it. I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'm not sure what I'm talking about," he said.
Once because I disliked her boiling water is too hot, a variety of counting me, I did not hold back, asked her: "mother-in-law, I am your daughter-in-law, we are a family, you are not willing to help me within the scope of your ability to help me a hand, you did not think of the future of the old sick, no one to wait to take care of it". The mother-in-law laughed and said: I have money in my hand, I have a husband, a son, and 2 caring daughters, I don't expect you to take care of your old age, so I could care less about your feelings.
These words are really chilling, and I realized that because she doesn't expect me, she doesn't care about me. I remembered that after I got married, I foolishly thought that if I just held back and was sincere with my mother-in-law, she would definitely change her mind about me. But the truth is, she doesn't even consider me a family member. She also told me not to think about her property, she said that it has long been divided into 2 daughters, since the son disobeyed and insisted on marrying you, then don't think about the family's money.
I looked at her, sneered and said: I know, you remember what you said today. After this, no matter how she nitpicked, I don't care, I just do my own thing. I spend money to buy food and cook, you love to eat, eat, do not love to eat, go buy food and cook by yourself. I also no longer continue to hold back, housework can do as much as possible to do, no longer and before the same, cleaning until midnight, just for the mother-in-law a smile.
Originally the days would have gone on like this day by day, but then I moved out. I was pregnant, my husband was very happy to have his own child, my father-in-law is also quite happy, they say that the next generation, will be a grandfather, naturally happy. Only the mother-in-law, cold face, camouflage refused. Because she felt that her husband and son, after the more attention to me as an outsider, but the family is a little more attention to the pregnant woman, is not it normal.
My mother-in-law was not happy, so she let her 2 daughters come back to live with their children and make all kinds of noise. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on the way to the next level, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on the way to the next level. As a result, my mother-in-law pushed and shoved me. I didn't stand still, and my stomach hit the corner of the table, and I bled at that time. Luckily, my husband was also at home, and sent me to the hospital in time, and the children and adults are not a big problem. I can't stand it any longer, and I'm proposing to move out, even if I have to rent an apartment.
Husband also angry, this time also agreed to move out, and quickly find a good house, move out, I days a lot of quiet, the mood is also very comfortable. Mom and Dad gave us a sum of money, we are ready to borrow a little more with friends to buy a set of their own house, began to look at the house off and on. Then just got the real estate license on the day, I suddenly start, before the due date gave birth to twin daughters.
My husband was so happy that he wouldn't let go of me, and when my father-in-law heard about it, he brought his mother-in-law over to see the baby. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one, and I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one. Before my husband and I said anything. My mother-in-law spoke: just two daughters, how valuable ah, really pretentious. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on the way to the next level.
Husband's face is very ugly, he originally wanted to tell mom and dad that he bought a house, want to be happy together. Now the mother-in-law said this, not to mention will not move back to live, buy a house this thing also do not want to say. Anyway, I spent my months at my mother's house, and after the baby was one month old, the three of us moved to the new house. With the help of my mother's family, I took the child, the days are also quite easy, so, a year passed quickly, I suddenly received a call from my mother-in-law.
It turned out that my mother-in-law went out on a trip and fell, and I don't know how it happened, but she actually had a hemiplegic stroke when she came back. The first time I saw her, she was in a state of shock, and she had no idea what she was going through. My father-in-law has been in poor health for the past year, and he needs to be taken care of himself, so naturally he can't take care of my mother-in-law. Originally, my mother-in-law wanted her two daughters to take care of, but the daughters said they were busy at home and couldn't get away, and a bunch of excuses, so I came to see a few times, and verbally cared for them, but nothing more.
The money spent on nannies is not a bad idea, but most of the money in her hands goes to her daughters, and her son certainly doesn't give much, so she can't afford to have a nanny in her home. In addition, she is not willing to spend this money, think there are people at home, why spend money. After thinking about it, she came up with the idea of me as her daughter-in-law. At first she wanted her father-in-law and my husband to give me a phone call, but my father-in-law said that people are you forced to go away, to unring the bell. The son said, she does not stop me filial piety you, but mom you were really too much, I can not open this mouth let my wife to take care of you.
No way, she herself gave me this phone call, the tone is not as aggressive as in the past, but still a look of righteousness. I was already holding a grudge, not to mention hearing her make demands as a matter of course. So I simply and directly refused, saying: Granny, I'm too clumsy to take care of you, and it might even affect your mood, so you'd better find your 2 daughters to take care of it. I hung up the phone after saying that, and I won't answer it if I call again.
I don't know if this is too harsh, but from the day I moved out, I was ready. To the in-laws, I do not pull my husband filial care, as long as it is reasonable, but do not expect me. "Ten years to see the mother-in-law ten years to see the daughter-in-law", really is not just talk, any one emotion, it is impossible to have a return without paying.