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- A cell phone, why?
For the answer, see below
In the age of advanced electronics, all kinds of places can see people with their heads down looking at their cell phones, and people's communication seems to be limited to communicating with their cell phones, rather than face-to-face.
An expert study: long-term playing with cell phones or make the mortality rate increased by 50%. Some people have even died in car accidents while playing with their cell phones while crossing the street.
Now people play with their cell phones on the street, play with their cell phones on the dinner table, no matter what they do, no matter where they go, there are cell phones, and cell phones have become people's personal housekeepers.
The danger of cell phones to me
The state of everyone is exactly my state, watching the drama is not very attractive to me, but holding the phone is always unconsciously want to brush the circle of friends.
When I realize I can't rest on my laurels anymore, I listen to books, learn words, and read articles, and my phone is a space for me to escape from my difficulties once in a while.
The relationship between cell phones and human beings has also changed from a communication tool to our housekeeper, which knows our privacy, call records, etc. It accompanies us in all aspects.
And us? When we can't find it, we feel anxious and insecure.
Although it brings a lot of convenience to human beings, it is also destroying them step by step.
We're not only giving it pieces of our time, we're also giving it whole chunks of our time.
Ten or twenty years ago, kids' toys were rocks on the ground, ropes, etc. Today kids' toys are cell phone games and videos.
Though it is a sign of human development, at the same time it destroys the hardworking and progressive heart of human beings.
Some people even go for high end cell phones just to show that they are rich,
When everyone is going with the flow, there is such a clear stream.
They seem to have been so disciplined, the godfathers who invented and created cell phones.
These godfathers invented cell phones, so their kids should have cell phones,
so why is it the opposite of what we think? Because they know something we don't realize.
Cell phones do both physical and psychological damage.
Playing with your phone for a long time can damage your spine, and constantly looking at your phone or playing with the lights off can damage your eyes. Listening to music with headphones all the time can cause hearing loss.
One hundred years ago, people were lying in bed smoking cigarettes, and one hundred years later, they are lying in bed playing with their cell phones. Cell phones are like drugs, the more you play, the more you get addicted.
1, self-discipline
The phone is destroying people's self-discipline step by step, for example, go home casually a paralyzed take out the phone to play, no matter what to do, we want to think is always later to do. As long as there's time, you'll be on your cell phone.
Self-discipline is essential for success.
Want to be successful there is a road is very difficult to go, people are inert, encountering difficulties want to give up, and constantly looking for reasons for a long time to get by, there is no requirement for their own, as long as the work, life is okay, anyway, we are all like this.
2, can not leave the phone
Every day we take the phone to watch videos, play games, brush the circle of friends ...... what to do after leaving the phone, but also became a major headache for everyone.
Many people say: read a book? It's not interesting. Then go out to play? What to play? In the end, or at home to play with the phone, no cell phone will be lifeless, sounds like the world in addition to the phone, there is nothing else.
3. Communication
The emergence of cell phones has reduced the number of face-to-face communication between people.
When electronics didn't exist or just appeared, families sat together and communicated about their lives, but now everyone sits together with their heads down and plays games, and the distance between people gradually grows farther and farther away, and they don't want to communicate with people.
For example, on New Year's Eve, when we used to sit together as a family to talk about work, study, and life, but now we're all indifferent to all that, and everyone keeps their heads down and swipes their cell phones, and the old people who don't have cell phones have turned from anxious to helpless at the beginning.
Decades ago, people, neighbors strung each other, chatting hot, and now more strangers between neighbors.
To ask how friends now know each other, most of the answers from the 80s, 90s, and 00s are: I met online ...... surely all related to the network.
And then ask the fifty-six years old aunt, their answer must be: I went to the square dance today to meet, tell you that this person can be good ...... you see she is to go to the square dance to meet, which shows that they like sports.
Not that friends on the network is not good, but that most of the teenagers are geeks, geeks do not leave the house, visible physical condition is not particularly good.
Maybe a lot of people are aware of the dangers of cell phones for them, but as soon as you get you out of your comfort zone, the laziness comes back, and you look for all sorts of reasons to put things off again and again.
For example, I myself, I always want to do what I want to do tomorrow, really to the next day, like forget about tomorrow and then do it, and so procrastinate again and again. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm going to be able to do it again, and I'm going to be able to do it again.
China's children are very dependent on their cell phones, and can even play with them day and night.
This is because while parents may blame their children for playing with their cell phones, they themselves can't lead by example, and over time the children will think that while their parents are always talking to them, they are not playing with their cell phones themselves. This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in a car with a car, and I've never seen her in a car with a car.
Although there are times when parents make rules, they have soft ears. When their children are pampering them, they are easily loosened up and will think that their children are so tired of studying, so let them play when they take a break.
After the first time, there will be a second time, when the parents again refused, the child will think I am so tired of studying, why do not you let me play with the phone during the break, they will think that the study is to cope with the parents rather than to improve themselves.
In the beginning, the human brain's computing speed was no match for computers and cell phones , but as humans continue to research and improve, they are now faster than the human brain.
And human beings gradually began to rely on computers, cell phones, to Baidu search for the answers they want, so it is fast, convenient, but really belong to their own brain how much.
In an era of constant technological change, perhaps the human race is moving towards extinction, replaced by robots.
Imagine, twenty or thirty years from now, you are a lie at home muddling through life, become a zero creativity, zero imagination, or become a self-disciplined, radiant people.
Maybe these are the reasons why tech godfathers don't give their kids electronics, so that they become someone who creates electronics rather than someone whose joys and sorrows are controlled by them.
Often times we think that gadgets save us a lot of time, but it wastes more of our time.
Because while you are doing one thing, some other feature of your phone diverts your attention.
For example, when you read an article, you look at it and swipe your friends, and that's how you get on the road of no return to swiping your friends.
In the future time may become something to be bought with money, who has more time is more affluent, what about time-wasters?
So it seems that self-discipline has become a quality that we all want to have, but it's hard to have.
Self-discipline is a quality that I have and don't have right now.
I would like to have this quality, but it is very difficult, I have set various goals for myself before just to have it. But in the end they were all abandoned for various reasons.
Why? Because of laziness, so lazy for two or three semesters, in fact, this is just I find myself a reason to hide in the comfort zone. At the end of the semester, woke up. Because I don't want to be the one who is different, but now I will stick to myself and do it when others don't because I want to be the best version of myself.
Do not change yourself because of the environment, the ancient Meng mother three moves for Mencius to learn, now we can not three moves, but at least we can not let themselves be changed by the environment.
2. Do your best
Do your best to accomplish something, not because it is difficult to give up. For example, when I was learning English vocabulary, I set a goal, but I gave up after two days because it was hard.
3. "Force" yourself
After you set a goal, you have to do it. Don't give yourself any chance to back out, and abuse yourself at the right time to make your life less comfortable. Because people only move forward when they realize they are in a bad situation.
What is a cell phone to you?
How much self-discipline do you have?
Where are your limits?