For some more introverted do not like to speak type players and social obstacles type players, suitable to take the method, inevitably is the "word like gold" method, in order to static braking, in order to not change to meet the changes
"How do you do not look for objects ah?"
- "No time."
"There is time to squeeze it in!"
--"Oh, okay."
"When are you getting married?"
--"I don't know, soon."
"How soon is soon?"
--"With TA."
"When are you going to have kids?"
--"It depends."
"When are you going to have a second child?"
--"Oh, let's see what happens."