I don't agree to find a wife to continue my life in the future. There are two views: first, it is impossible to live in harmony with the other half of your life and really want to love. There are many such examples in our community. Nowadays, the elderly over 60 remarry, and most of them choose not to get married and live together silently, which makes them feel embarrassed about the outside world. I seldom go out with you. Go shopping! Because they are afraid of being laughed at.
Few men who are difficult to remarry go to the woman's house. Most women with no income or low wages make do together. Most of the expenses for eating and drinking are paid by men, and then they give women some pocket money. If they give more men, they will be reluctant. If they give less, women will pout Besides, that man really doesn't have that much money. There is a big brother upstairs who is very close to me. His wife died young and retired at the age of 60. The salary of the enterprise is more than 3000. I was introduced and found a 52-year-old. Living together for more than ten years without a marriage certificate. For money, they quarrel all day, and there is no way for them to share. After a while, after many twists and turns, they came together again. It's still the same now, neither too hot nor too cold. It's always noisy and awkward for money. Ask me, what do you say, brother? I will comfort him. This is your life. Since you have chosen, let's do it! After all, people are seven or eight years younger than you and have willful capital. Let her go and see if she can serve you. This is also a helpless way. Do you feel sick?
Your other half, leaving early, is very lonely, and that kind of sadness can't be forgotten in a short time. However, you won't choose the other half, but don't sink in. You should work hard in forget the sorrow, cheer yourself up, precipitate and purify your mind, and prepare for your long-term life, because the road ahead is still very long. How to get there? Get rid of loneliness, rebuild myself, start a new life, and live a confident me again, a confident and strong me.
How did you do that? We should go out and take part in some meaningful activities, such as community volunteer activities for the elderly, universities for the elderly, group entertainment and so on. If you have any special skills, you can also show them and teach them to everyone, which will not only give full play to your talents, but also benefit everyone.
Take part in some sports activities that suit your own characteristics, such as aerobics, square dance, Tai Ji Chuan, table tennis, singing and learning musical instruments. Only strong body and healthy body and mind will be beneficial to health and longevity.
If you are 60 years old, if you are not too old and have economic conditions, you can choose to travel regularly every year. According to different seasons, you can choose short-term tourism and long-term tourism to enjoy the scenery, understand the geographical knowledge and regional culture, and entertain your body and mind.
Why not?
60 is a good age, don't be lonely, live a good life, live a healthy and happy life, there are many beautiful things waiting for you to do, and there are many beautiful scenery waiting for you to see. You should live confidently, live wonderfully and show yourself!
After a person reaches the age of 60, no one cares about him. How will he spend the rest of his life?
My suggestion is:
First, find a wife.
If conditions permit, you can find a wife to accompany you for life. It's better to have company than to be alone. Of course, it is difficult for old people to find wives. It is suggested to find someone who can talk with you and has the same interests, regardless of the other person's money, appearance and other factors.
Second, pay attention to health.
When people are old, the biggest worry is health. Therefore, the main task of the elderly is to keep healthy. At ordinary times, we should develop good living habits, regular diet and scientific exercise. Don't get up on time, don't eat on time, eat badly, stay up late, feel sad, be alone, etc. Will cause harm to the body;
Third, continue to work.
If you are in good health, find a job within your power. Proper busyness can make people forget their troubles and loneliness, make people younger and more energetic, and reduce the incidence of Alzheimer's disease. It is best to live and work until you are old;
Fourth, go to the university for the aged.
Go to the university for the elderly and integrate into the elderly family. There you can find warmth, fun and friendship, which can not only cultivate your hobbies, but also strengthen many friends and make life full of hope and happiness.
In short, as long as we adjust our mentality, the life of the elderly will still be colorful and full of fun.
Nowadays, due to the great wealth of materials and the great improvement of living standards, people around the age of 60 are still quite young, and they can live a healthy life for at least twenty or thirty years. The road of life is still long and the future is bright. We should strengthen our courage and confidence in life and live a healthy, happy and wonderful life.
In order to avoid loneliness, have a warm and happy home and live a happy old age, the old three treasures are indispensable, that is, my wife's hometown is the house, which is the material basis of old age life.
1 funds, that is, pensions, must be prepared for emergencies. If the amount of pension money is insufficient, the life of the elderly will be very difficult. Needless to say, outsiders, even relatives, will look down upon them, and they will lose their dignity and dignity in a long life, especially when they are sick and need money.
The lair is a house. In old age, if you don't have a shelter of your own, you are homeless and you don't have a warm home. At the same time, the house is also a symbol of home and a necessary material for life. The house is not wide, just have your own.
As the saying goes, a house full of children is not as good as a half-assed couple. The old man had better choose a good wife who can share joys and sorrows with himself, share the same interests, care for each other, understand each other and spend the rest of his life together. In this way, we can have a heart-to-heart chat in peacetime, increase the interest of life, share the joys and sorrows of life, avoid loneliness, improve the quality of life and enhance our confidence in life. Wherever you go, you will have your wife and endless thoughts.
If you have your wife's old house, you can spend the rest of your life in peace. You can dress yourself dignified, beautiful, neat and beautiful every day. You can go to the supermarket with your wife to visit the park, travel and travel. You can also go to the university for the aged to learn new knowledge. In short, the rest of your life is colorful, romantic, happy and unforgettable.