Those who are like-minded are not as far away as mountains and seas.
I have always believed that there must be a magnetic field between people, radiating outward along the three views and through the soul.
People with the same magnetic field and similar frequency will have a special understanding, even if they are on different sides of the world, they will meet one day.
A reader came to me to chat, she said: "After going to college, there is no real chat with friends around, feeling quite lonely. The first time there is no class, the roommates will hold the phone, nestled in the dormitory, sometimes a stay is a whole day. I feel like I'm not in the same world as them anymore. I didn't want to waste time like them anymore and simply became a misfit."
She asked me, "If you haven't met friends you talk to yet, would you put yourself with them?"
I said to her, "If I haven't met them yet, I'd rather be alone on the road than settle."
You can't talk to each other because you don't share the same outlook and you don't have the same aspirations.
You have to make your mark on the right people, not be tied down by people outside the circle.
Three views are different from you in nature, there is no need to have to stay in a circle of strong integration.
The psychological distance generated by the different views is the most distant distance between people.
For example, a lack of ambition, only know all day to eat, drink and play the vulgar people and a far-reaching ambition, senior prestige politicians chat, the brain is to be burned to death. Even if it is a very small issue, the politician will think y and dig deep into the essence. And a mediocre person can't think about that.
The way is different, not the same. Instead of walking together with people who do not share the same outlook and ambitions, it is better to choose not to be such a companion.
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On the road to growth, it's really not easy to meet a like-minded person and talk about dreams with you.
Nowadays, people are communicating with each other more and more, and more and more people are linking behind them. Those QQ friends and WeChat friends are triple-digit and quadruple-digit, and there are a few like-minded people in them. I'm afraid that some of the friends, have not talked about it.
The people in the circle will influence each other. It's okay to have a small circle, but the key is to have many people who share your views and aspirations. Streamlining quantity and improving quality is the right way to raise the level of a circle.
Like-minded people get together, like a feast. Each other's talk, talent, ideas, vision, etc. are on a level, their circle is denser, more forward-looking, there will be a higher dimension of vision, to bring more possibilities to their own life.
People like to simply interact.
People with the same outlook and similar aspirations come together, have a longing for the distant future, live a poetic life, have a spiritual **** Ming, accompany each other to finish each kilometer on the road to chase the dream, in the same spirit of the world to roam freely, warm each other, support each other, without the need for polite pleasantries, can be cherished by the soul.
Meeting with interesting people, meeting with noble souls, the long road of life, we walk together ......