Growing up means losing and gaining at the same time

I used to read a saying, "Growing up doesn't necessarily mean gaining, but it definitely means losing."

"Let's play house, I'll be the father and you'll be the mother"

"After school, let's go fly a kite"

"In the future, when you get married, I'll be the maid of honor. "

"Study hard, we have to go to the same university"

"We are good friends for life"

"When we are old, we will dance together.

"When we are old, we will dance together"

Is the girl who said this to you still with you now?

I don't know when it started, but those friends who were once very good friends became friends with the likes and dislikes of the friends circle, and fell silent in the friends list. The first time I met them, I had no conversation with them after a couple of lines. Maybe we are all too busy, no time to talk to each other, or maybe there are new friends, no time to take care of old friends, or we have different ideas, the topic is gradually less,, in any case, no matter what, once brought each other happiness, it is enough.

Wishing you years and years of peace, even if we never see each other again.