Is the falling of the leaves the pursuit of the wind or the tree's failure to retain?

Leaves fall is the pursuit of the wind, or the tree's not to retain. Leaf fall is very scenery, let a person look at some heartache, not only in the left behind is the bald branch, more importantly, there is a kind of separation of the pain, is the wind's fault, is the tree's abandonment, or the leaf's helplessness. I saw this sentence a long time ago, may be he himself has a kind of infinite flawed thought feeling, vaguely can feel it contains some kind of moral, seems to quickly realize, but also very vague. Think of so many couples encountered emotional crisis, so that the original kind of if the dark feeling is only gradually clear, in the moment of breakup, who is your tree who is your leaf, or, you are who's tree, your leaf and who, after the separation of the pain, early doomed to no one is the victor, about no one will be brave enough to define the heartache, but then how, the world every day of the gathering of the scattered and but still in one after another! On the eye, taste, all forms of breakup of the world may be included inside a leaf yellow, but the tree does not care, in the wind did not come when the tree is actually with the expectation of the psychological, because it has other leaves to choose from, perhaps because of the moisture and nutrients can be obtained greater utility. Leaves gently taken away by the wind, with deep attachment and reluctance, while the tree is proud of the head, do not even look at it. At this time, the one who changed his heart was the tree, and the one whose heart ached was the leaf. Or one day, the leaf is tired of being fixed in one place, when it sees the wind's dashing, it will be adored, it is more willing to go with the wind, to find their own more love. The tree, however, is so ignorant, or it is so infatuated, that at the moment when the leaf floats away, its heart breaks, yet in each fragment, there is still only deep love. At this point, the one who changed its heart was the leaf, and the one whose heart ached was the tree. Like the tree, its life can not be said to be not long, like the leaf, but also like a short-lived flower. The metaphor of a lover may be a bit far-fetched. But the thought of a loved one, will one day experience the pain of the next world, and at this time the wind, such as the creation of the general, will first take away one of the two. Remember this sentence: if you want to die so that I first you die, no Ning you first I died, I only bear the pain of this loneliness, always feel lingering through the infinite sadness. So the thinking is further spread, such as the sky is different like that, is not also the creation of people? At this time, the tree and the leaves have not changed their hearts, but they are very helpless, just had to bow in front of the powerful wind. The leaf was taken away by the wind, when it fell, it and the tree may be with tears of pain. The wind, the tree, the leaf, is just a subtle demonstration of nature, which is meant to be sentimental. If you have to choose, together with the tree, and the beloved together to endure the leaves were detached from the body of the pain of tearing; if you have to choose, together with the leaves, and the beloved with the wind together with the wind, drifting to the most dashing place, until withered, turned into dust ... In fact, no matter what to do, never separate, is what we are pursuing the yearning.