Auntie Cai is an introverted woman who has two children for her wife. After retirement, she often dances in the square, and slowly, she has an affair.
Why did the pro-age into the bush, cheating in his sixties? 1. After retirement, couples have more free time, social and leisure activities have increased, so there are more opportunities to meet new friends.
Secondly, the difference in the couple's range of interests and social skills, when they were young, there were no serious problems, but if they want to act together after retirement, there will be conflicts.
Third, young people have a good relationship, but at an older age, if couples grow up at different paces and have different expectations of marriage, it is easy to change.
Fourth, couples may not age at the same rate. If the degree of physical and mental degradation is too great, there may even be questions of caregiving, "Do I really want to grow old with this person?" Questions like that.
First, look at each other's emotional state first. If the couple's feelings are still there, and there are still expectations for this marriage, then after the crying and fussing, you still need to restrain your emotions, deal with them calmly, and regain each other's trust, just like when you were young.
Secondly, if the elderly extramarital affair is a complication of an old and tasteless marriage, just because there is no face to put forward the word "divorce", then seriously consider letting go of each other, give each other space.
Third, some older couples are reluctant to let go because they fear that if they lose their minds after divorce or separation, no one will be there to take care of them, or they will find it difficult to find someone new. Of course, these concerns are not entirely unfounded, but keeping each other apart for these reasons will not be better for the physical and mental health and quality of life of older people.
Fourth, if the older couple can't handle it on their own, they should seek the help of their children and other family and friends, as they did when they were younger, rather than shying away and letting the argument get out of hand.