Actually, this is true to a certain extent. On one level, when you are in a relationship, often the more you don't get each other, the more valuable you feel inside, which is easy to understand. On another level, the more you give, the more you mean the sunk costs between you increase, you want to leave this person when the more difficult, the more you can't get down hard.
So many people think, see, must be high cold point! To learn to take a little end point, to give each other a can not get the illusion, so that the other party chased after the hand, only more know how to cherish their own. Words are so, but, so the person who said, he only knows one and does not know the other, made the mistake of putting the cart before the horse. To know, the underlying logic of love is, really get along, in the end, each other to see or for people, or charm, or skills, or these commonplace things really work.
Because, in love is a gradual process, your what a little smart, little clever, at most can be tricked into the hand, but definitely not enough to keep each other. The first half of the year, not to mention that point of mind, you have a few nevus on the other side of the butt know clearly.
So, only your own was what kind of person, can really determine the quality and stability of the relationship between you, and never the so-called before the investment in how much, what posture.
The best kind of love is when two people click together without any set-up. This is what love is supposed to be like. Twisting and turning, making a set, increasing the difficulty, stinking atmosphere - this is called a spoiler, interesting also let you make it not interesting.
So, intentionally hanging each other that kind of trick, itself tainted the word love. Moreover, you really can fish each other on a few months half a year, that can only mean one thing. You simply do not like each other. If you like him, you simply can not suppress the most original impulse in your heart, you really like him, you can do so sensible, you have long gone to the fucking what set of what to escape, I can not help it, life must be full of joy I want to be with him without shame together with who stops me with whom I anxious.
This is the same as holding back urine, there is a limit to the extent that people can't take it anymore. So, if you can't find someone, you should do one thing, self-improvement, personal value, emotional value, and before that person comes, you've become smart enough, knowledgeable, good-looking, interesting, and profound to meet each other with your best look.