The more you grow up, the more lonely you get?

It's hard to make friends when I grow up.

A long time ago, I was young and didn't understand loneliness. Looking around, I think I will never encounter loneliness in my life. But slowly, I feel that I am slowly submerged by the wave of loneliness, submerged in it. ...

With the growth of age, I have experienced more and more things, become more and more complicated, and pay more and more attention to interests. When I grow up, only a few friends can open their hearts, and none of them. Many friends exchange equally. As for those friends who disappear in our life with the growth of age, it may also be because there is no reciprocal exchange of interests, which leads to the gradual loss of contact.

Life is destined to be long and lonely. Someone will accompany you through a certain stage, but you are destined to walk the whole journey alone. All difficulties and hardships can only be achieved by ourselves. Everyone can't escape this rule. The older you get, the lonelier you get. Loneliness is not the parting of others, but the discovery that everyone has their own way to go.

Now the society is developing, the economy is progressing and the times are changing. Eating, drinking and having fun is not as simple as before. But the feelings between people are getting weaker and weaker. Especially when we grow up, good friends have gone their separate ways except occasionally talking about life on the phone. In addition, with the passage of time, many friends no longer contact.

Sometimes, I miss the carefree days of my childhood. I have no heart, no lungs, and I don't know what loneliness is. The children's world is always full of noise and laughter.

But when I grow up, I will occasionally enjoy the feeling of loneliness. Sometimes I prefer to be alone and enjoy silence. Maybe at a certain age, they won't deliberately pursue excitement and noise. In fact, their inner voice needs to be heard.

Then, the more you grow up, the more lonely you become. Actually, it's part of growing up.