Hello, with the rapid development of China in the past few decades, not only people's material life has undergone earth-shaking changes, but also their thinking is completely different from before.
The elderly today are completely different from those ten or twenty years ago. In the past, the elderly were well fed and clothed, and having children and grandchildren was happiness...
Now Woolen cloth? In the face of a rapidly developing era, people's previous relationships are becoming increasingly alienated, and everyone's life is under great pressure. Old people are tired too. Happiness now
First, live well, be in good health, be free from illness and disaster, and not cause trouble to your children
Second, die quickly and without illness is best, so as not to suffer the consequences alive. , and at the same time not causing trouble to the children.
Third, live for yourself. The elderly lived for themselves when they were young, but unfortunately they had no food to eat. When they grow up, they live for their children. When they grow old, they live for their grandchildren and granddaughters! It's so tiring. Nowadays, the elderly look away and take care of their own children. The elderly hope to live for themselves once in their lives, dance in the square at night, play small cards, and go out for travel...