When I was a child, my heart ached for my mother and hated my father.
The mother is fully committed to the child, hard work to bring us up;
The father completely disregarded the family, a bunch of friends, every day eating, drinking, playing cards and fishing.
With the growth of our older siblings, the need for our mother to work hard and worry about things gradually disappeared,
Our mother seemed to have lost the center of gravity in her life, and even the old ladies' standard "square dance", she could not be bothered.
The smile on her face gradually became less and less, and she always looked forward to our return home.
On the other hand, my father is still as happy as ever to go out and meet friends, play cards and go fishing.
The mother is a real Chinese mother,
who has been working all her life for her children,
for their food and drink,
for their studies,
for their work,
for their marriage,
all her life around her children.
The mother has been working all her life for her children.
One day, when the child grows up and doesn't need him/her, he/she feels that he/she is useless and redundant.
He/she is careful about what he/she says and does in front of his/her child for fear that he/she will disturb or annoy him/her.
They live such a lowly life, so lowly that they are in the dust.
If your parents are such parents,
please care more about them, talk to them more, listen to them patiently, find something for them to do, let them feel that they are still useful people, children still love them.