Middle age is different from youth, youth is yearning for anything, do anything is passionate, people to the middle age, there are many did not experience have experienced, there are a lot of once aspired to get, of course, there are also a lot of wishes they have not reached.
Many people feel halfway through life when they reach middle age, and their efforts have no meaning, so many middle-aged people choose to be lazy, choose to fall, choose to enjoy themselves at home, even if through their own efforts to undo some of the regrettable things, they do not want to try to make a change.
In fact, middle age is also worth the struggle, as long as you make life interesting, no matter what age you are, you have something you want to do, you have the mindset that you should have.
The best 3 states of being in middle age, please force yourself to develop them so that you can live a colorful life even in middle age.
Be confident, do not feel inferior, live your own
Many people reach middle age, life is still not as good, not even better than when they were young. At this time, many middle school students will give up on themselves, and even become unconfident, feeling that this life no matter how hard they try can not be achieved, so they broke the pot, began to fall, began to be lazy.
In fact, when a person succeeds, some times it depends on fate. Maybe you to middle age before very hard, but the time is not yet arrived, you are very difficult to succeed, to the middle age you should be more efforts to wait for the time, we must know that the opportunity is to give the people who are prepared.
So there is absolutely no need to give up on yourself in the middle age, instead you should live a more confident life, can not be inferior, to feel that fate will favor their own, and one day they will also live a decent look.
What a person thinks in his heart will determine what he does, if a person he is confident that he does not have low self-esteem, then he will do anything to have the energy. It's only a matter of time before you can live your life naturally.
Don't be too obsessive, do your best and listen to God
There are also a lot of people who start to live more and more obsessively in middle age. For example, when they were young and did not chase the girl, in middle age they want to get that girl even more, they feel that they must not marry this girl.
For example, some people in their middle age, they do not do something to the degree of satisfaction, they have to go to great lengths to do this thing to the extreme, and even at the expense of staying up all night. In fact, when people reach middle age, they must have a state of mind that is to be open-minded.
Meet your own efforts for a long time, still no results of things must learn to do their best to listen to God. As long as you feel that you have worked hard in place, you can afford yourself, then the result of this thing how? It's up to God to decide.
Obsession will only make yourself more painful, let yourself into the mire. There are times when you learn to do the best you can, such a state of life, you will find yourself living more easily.
Don't compare everything with others, everyone has their own unique way of living happily
There are also a lot of people in the middle age, like to compare everything with others. When you sit down to dinner with your relatives and friends, you will compare your children with them.
And their young brothers sit together to eat, and they will be compared to their own career. In fact, everyone has their own unique way of living happily, there is no need to compare with others.
The old saying is that people are better than people, some time to live their own life, how do you care about others. If you always want to go and others to compare, you will live a very tired, because you will find that you are always one step behind others, always not as well developed as others. But who knows what is said above the dinner table, which is true and which is not?
Many people are successful in middle age, so they have some capital to compare with others. But you have to realize that comparing is meaningless, it will only make you feel that you are not successful enough. So instead of comparing yourself, you should enjoy your own unique way of living.
Life is short, and we should live it to the fullest at every age. With the passage of time, people will get older day by day, if in the middle of the stage of stagnation, and even began to self-loathing.
Then in the later years of life will be very miserable. And middle-aged people want to have the best state, you must be confident, not inferior, must live out their own. Of course, everything can not be too obsessive, people live to middle age must be open, some things as much as possible to listen to God's fate can be.
The most important kind of state, that is, learn not to compare, people than people, will be more than the death of people, but also let you live more hard more tired.