In that year, the husband had an affair, he was a year older than me, people say forty men a flower, appearance or better in the same age, although there is no lads youthfulness, but also still handsome, perhaps my negligence, perhaps I think of all the old married couples, the son is so old, become a relationship like relatives. The last thing that I wanted to happen happened in my thought process. I divorced my husband.
Husband, can't call it that anymore! It should be ex-husband, he would go raise someone else's child rather than live with me.
I've always worked in a restaurant, where I was a waitress, and I'm cheerful and good-looking, but I'm a little small. I have to continue to work hard to earn money, because my son has to go to school, and I still have to deal with my husband, and I still have to live without him.
Just as I think of it, this time there is a man broke into my life, a rainy Saturday, I went to work as usual, ran into a tall and loud northeastern man Lao Song (a pseudonym) to the restaurant for dinner, he said that he had just come back from Sri Lanka to visit his family, where he did the ZG aid project in Sri Lanka, where he is responsible for the box to the other friends, mouth like a mouth to speak about what he had seen there. He said that he had just returned from a visit to his family, where he was in charge of a ZG-aided project in Sri Lanka.
After two days, he came back, still in the same box, and I still came to serve them. Then later he inquired about my situation, learned that I have been divorced news, began to frequent here, looking for a lot of reasons to approach me, through chatting I learned that he is 14 years older than me, but is already full of gray hair, he said it is the family genetics. He said he had a wife and daughter, he would divorce for me. At that time, I just divorced, from the heart very much hope that there is a man to heal to care. So and he started dating, after a month of sweet time, his vacation to go to Sri Lanka! We keep in touch by phone wechat.
Meet again is half a year later, see me said he has filed for divorce to his wife, came back to do this thing, in order to show his sincerity in the C city bought a house, the real estate license wrote my name. At that time, he had not yet divorced, write his name involves the distribution of property of both spouses, he gave each other a set of three bureaus room house, plus 400,000 yuan RMB, and thus dissolved the marriage with the original spouse.
My parents are close to 80 years of age, I am the youngest in the family, he and my father stood with my father looks about the same age (my father often exercise to play tai chi), so my father is not very satisfied, but see him in order to me divorced, but also bought a house, reluctantly accept this son-in-law, invited a family to eat at a high-grade restaurant to determine the relationship, or to bless us to have a good time wishing us happiness. I received a license to start my second marriage life.
At this time, my son graduated from college and was looking for a job, and Song used his connections to find a job for his son as well as his daughter-in-law-to-be, and although the job was far from home, it was still relatively stable, and I can't thank him enough.
In the second year, we spent the first Spring Festival after a second marriage in our new home in C. I felt so solid at that time, and felt that I had found a man I could rely on, and my son was also very good to him, and all day long, he called his father short, just for me to have a stable and comfortable life, and I was very grateful to him for finding a job.
After he retired again, we settled down in C city. There is nothing, I often accompany him in the boulevard walk, after dinner he accompanied me to the square dance, we often out of the double into the pair of very loving, the old Song's daughter often come to see him, every time to come to me is to do a large table of food, to treat the pro-daughter, in exchange for the compulsion to shout at me an aunt, after all, is not my daughter, I do not care, as long as it is me and the old Song on the line.
Such a two to two, the old Song to the night can not sleep, turning over in bed late into the night, and finally in the living room on the sofa before barely sleeping a while, long time fell headache, we began to start fighting for small things, to the end of the fight, the woman for the fight would not be able to, and that is, I'm not tall, in the face of the man than I am higher than a large cut, I am like a chicken. Chicken, he never hit to the face, my body was hit by a piece of green and purple. This happened a few times and then I was scared of him.
In such a stormy days and two years, gradually understood that he regretted marrying me, because he married me, he was complained by his daughter, was surrounded by people's different eyes, as the saying goes, chaff wife can not be discarded, he wanted to do everything possible to divorce for me and his married wife, so that his daughter to lose confidence in the marriage (at the age of 29 years old), and did not talk about boyfriends in the later years. Old Song regretted!
He proposed to me in the house where I now live on the real estate license, but also to add his name, but also to go to the fairness of the fair, affirming that this house I only have the right to use without ownership, affirming that I can live until death, but the house should be given to the old Song's daughter. (Maybe it's a compensation for the daughter.) I agreed to sign it.
The most important thing is that my son is going to get married, and later have a child I as a grandmother have to coax the grandson, the old Song resolutely opposed to bring the grandson to the C city, he said that he do not want to coax my grandchildren, I gave my son said later to have a child, but this is not my say, the second year daughter-in-law pregnant, I and the old Song is more constantly angry quarrel, and even his heart disease is committed, and underwent an operation. The doctor also said he had moderate depression.
When my daughter-in-law was about to give birth to a child, she needed someone to take care of her, and I left Lao Song, and Lao Song went to his daughter's place. His daughter lives with his ex-wife. What if I were his ex-wife? I don't dare to imagine.
We just keep this relationship until now, I heard that he went back to our former home, a person in the living, perhaps the ex-wife can not forgive him, or has no place for him, time can change a lot, but also can stay a lot.
This is a real thing that happened to me, in order to respect the parties involved, with a pseudonym, hope that the hero of the story can be happy in his old age.