01 Women are soft and weak, for the mother is just, no child when the needle zap me a bit can cry half a day, nowadays I cesarean section for him seven layers, but not half a bit of complaining about the intention, I just hope that in this life he is healthy, happy, enough for me!
02 Six months of pregnancy and vomiting let me understand a truth, weight loss is not to open legs, but to control the mouth, six months pregnant, with a child in the stomach, since I lost fifteen pounds!
03 After giving birth to a child all over the body swollen, the doctor could not find blood vessels, up to a day to tie me eight needles, I did not do anything, to my mother to see cried!
I, insomnia!
After the birth of the child as a new mother is confused, is overwhelmed, do not know how to take care of this little man, crying at night rushed to pick up the breastfeeding, put the urine, so the monthly sleep is not good!
Then the child is bigger every night to drink night milk, up to eight times a night, basically an hour once, I just want to fall asleep, he woke up, insomnia at night, no spirit during the day, boiled are all the blood of the heart!
After the child jitters thought he could sleep a peaceful sleep, the result is that I think too much, every night you have to sleep with you, like a night light, as long as you move he knows, a two-meter bed, can not sleep our mother and father, has been next to me, has been pressed me! Now that the child is older and sleeps in a separate bed, my insomnia has become a habit!
Two, depression!
After the child was one year old, I found that I had depression, very obvious kind, see the window want to jump, tears are particularly worthless, say cry, the child do what is annoying, husband do what is wrong!
The head is not cold sweat or hot sweat, irritability is a common thing, moving mood is not good, the home with me and the child two people, the child has become a sufferer!
Women are really not easy, don't think she is nothing to do, in fact, she can't control herself, persuade themselves to become a common thing, the past always want to take out and say, you don't want to give me a perfect answer, this matter will not be able to pass!
Now it's better, but it seems to have left an aftermath, and every now and then it's a problem, and there's a feeling of early menopause!
Three, heart disease!
I have always thought that my body is healthy, there is no problem, since I have a child, my heart said that the sudden sudden, the doctor said that my heart is not very good, what arrhythmia, I think it is not a problem of my heart, there are children's mothers should be the same, right!
The child was lost, our neighborhood is closed, the child out of the door of the possibility of almost zero, but looked for every corner of the neighborhood are not children, half an hour later the phone rang, my son climbed the nineteenth floor of the children's home to go to the door, in the period of time that he disappeared this heart is going to fall out of me!
The child lost again, go to the supermarket to sneak, the child stood there to see the delivery of packages, I turned back to look at how much rice, and so I turned back to the child is gone, I am walking or not walking it? Do I look for it or do I not look for it? Standing there waiting stupidly, about twenty minutes or so heard the radio shouting, whoever the mother, your child at the service desk waiting for you!
Summary: Some of these are common problems after becoming a mother, like I didn't do well in my menstrual cycle, headaches have become a regular occurrence, cold hands and feet, and irregular aunts, and I haven't had a good time since I had a child, and it seems that nowadays, I still have a ? mental illness?