Four (1) class Sun Xiaoyu parents Sun Yong
Time flies, my daughter Sun Xiaoyu has been ten years old, ten years, I witnessed her growth, from a croaking baby, grew into an elementary school student.
My daughter is a fourth-grade student at Shimei Elementary School, and since she was a child, she has been a very good child, never letting us worry about her parents, active in her studies, and very independent in her life. From first to third grade, she was the class president every year, and was also awarded as a good student many times, everything was smooth sailing, without any setbacks. But one thing that happened this semester made me feel that my daughter has really grown up.
This year, after entering the fourth grade, in the election for class president, the day before, she did a good job of preparing herself, and she was full of confidence, but she finally lost the election. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to find the best way to get the most out of your time, but I'm sure you'll be able to find the best way to get the most out of your time, and I'm sure you'll be able to find the best way to get the most out of your time. Sure enough, in the evening, she told me that the class president lost the election, the heart is very sad, but also very aggrieved, and afraid of mom and dad disappointed in her. I looked at my daughter's childish face, said to her, lost the election, it's okay, but at the same time it also shows that you in some aspects of the performance is not good enough, not comprehensive enough, there is still to be improved, we must know that there is a mountain beyond the mountain, there are people outside, you can not always be the best, from now on, you have to be more demanding of themselves, to the same level as the good classmates, to learn from them. The daughter nodded understandingly.
More than a month in the past, I saw a composition in my daughter's workbook, titled "my good classmates", the content is to write their class president Ge Yirun, from her words, I saw her full of friendship and love of classmates, to see her class president of their heartfelt admiration, I suddenly felt very touched, but also very gratified, because my daughter is finally in the gains and losses, to find themselves, and to be able to compete with the competitors. I suddenly felt very touched and relieved because my daughter had finally found herself in the midst of gain and loss, and was able to become good friends with her competitors. She had learned to strike a balance and adjust her state, and had resolved this small setback very well. Thinking about today's society, due to the fierce competition, often for the sake of their own interests, at the expense of bringing harm to their rivals. Especially nowadays, children are only children, pampered at home, developed a very strong self-centered mentality, everything is to be by themselves, a little less than desired, on the temper, and even more, due to the ability to withstand is too poor, once encountered frustration, at a loss, choose to commit suicide is also a large number of people. All these are dangerous signals for minors, which require proper guidance from parents. Through my daughter's campaign, I feel that my daughter is more understanding than before, and she has really grown up.
While giving my daughter educational help, it also inspired me that everyone in the work life will always happen in a variety of kinds of problems, but not because of a momentary failure, lost their own direction and willpower to set up a correct outlook on life, be tolerant of others, and courageous to face the successes and failures of the gains and losses.