In fact, in today's society, this is really a very common thing. Many young people will choose to buy a house outside and not live with their parents' in-laws. In fact, I feel that there are many reasons for this.
First, from ancient times to the present, whether in TV series or books, we have seen many cases of evil mothers bullying new wives. Moreover, this kind of thing is very common around us and in our life, which has a subtle influence on us, that is, we don't want to live with a bad mother-in-law and don't want to be bullied. Solve this problem directly from the root, do not live with them, and reduce the friction in life.
Secondly, the lifestyle of young people has changed greatly, which is very different from that of the older generation. Moreover, their ideas of cheating are quite different, and it is not appropriate to forcibly put two people with incompatible ideas together. For example, many young people are really tired after working for a week. On weekends, they stay in bed and go out for dinner if they don't want to cook. But if they live with their parents, it's different. He will wake up quietly on weekends, and then they will treat you to dinner. If you lie in bed, you should talk endlessly. Although it's good for you, I'm afraid you weren't in the mood to understand. When you go out to eat or something, your parents will say what you are wasting money on, you can eat at home, the outside is not clean, and you will talk a lot. This will easily lead to some disputes in daily life, which is unnecessary. If it can be avoided, why not? You're happy, I'm happy, and everyone's okay?
Third, if your mother and I fell into the water at the same time, who would you choose to save? This is a stalk that my boyfriend can't escape. A mother always wants her daughter-in-law to be nicer to her son. If she were better, she would find fault with her daughter-in-law. Maybe there's nothing wrong with her in your opinion. In the eyes of your mother-in-law, it is the biggest problem. She will find fault with your inability to cook, clean, clean and so on, all the faults he can see. At this time, it is very indignant that a boy is caught in the middle. If a girl really loves this boy, she will try to avoid this problem, because it really affects the life between husband and wife. ?
Finally, there will be great disputes between the two sides on the education of their children. Parents in the new era will always have their own ways to educate their children. If you live with your in-laws at this time and live together every day, you will inevitably cross your feet on the education of your children. Normal, healthy and intentional education was certainly feasible at that time, but if you spoil your children in an incorrect way, it will have a bad influence on your children and will definitely lead to quarrels and conflicts.
So I think young people still have a good reason not to live with their in-laws or parents.