Different ways of thinking determine a person's different attitudes and behaviors, these attitudes and behaviors often have a huge impact on a person's life, and even determine a person's life.
1. People with a high sense of self-worth believe that they are capable enough to get what they want, will accept their own imperfections, know how to love and respect themselves, and can teach others to trust him, love him and respect him.
2, self-love and selfishness are completely different, selfishness to the outside world, hoping to get something from the outside world to make themselves happy, so selfish people keep asking for; self-love is the inward looking, look to themselves, take the initiative to fill their own cups, their own to make their own happiness, and then the cup is full of self-overflow, will be full of love and happiness to share to the people around them.
3, beautiful or not with age has nothing to do, the important thing is an attitude. This attitude contains love: love of life, love of oneself, love all the beautiful things.
4, the woman who pleases herself, has the ability to self-affirmation, self-appreciation, but also can happily accept others to give.
5, the premise of free choice is to have enough courage to be responsible for the choice.
6, if you have a psychological button, you can face it head on through systematic desensitization, repeatedly pressing it to make it malfunction and no longer work. The less you touch it, the more damage it will bring you once you touch it. When you dare to face it head on, it becomes less destructive and it malfunctions.
7. Balancing independence and dependence, strength and weakness, promotes our physical health. There are two important abilities to learn in a person's life, the ability to be independent and the ability to rely on others.
8, to enhance the sense of self-control: start from small things, to gain success; participate in sports, exercise; control your time, less use of cell phones on the Internet; meditation, meditation and other ways to make the inner quiet; to develop a regular routine habits.
9, how to become a person who allows others to observe: have a real skill or have their own expertise; this skill has its own uniqueness, or your skills are more exquisite than others, so that you have their own characteristics and personal style; your own skills should always have a heart of awe, cherish and enthusiasm.
10, different ways of thinking determine a person's different attitudes and behaviors, these attitudes and behaviors often have a huge impact on a person's life, and even decide a person's life.
11, what you like is where your wisdom lies, where your wealth lies. As long as you like, you can naturally adhere to; as long as you like, it is not too late to start learning at any time; as long as you like, you have the ability to compete with others, it is easier to achieve success in the competition, and get the return of money.
12, I found that those who are older, seventy or eighty years old, full of gray hair can still hold hands to go for a walk couples, they have a kind of transcendence of the bland calm and gentle temperament. Two people choosing vegetables together, watching TV together, or even eating a bowl of veggie noodles together can make people feel the love between them. Chatting with them, they will give you a very warm, soft energy, not too fast and not too slow, as if time stops at them, no outside flurry of disturbance, only two people's years of water, the years are quiet, perhaps this kind of thing can be called eternal tenderness.
13, freedom belongs to those strong and lonely soul.
14, each of us live in their own knowledge and understanding of the world, it can be said that everyone is living a very narrow. Learning to look at things from different perspectives gives us one more way to recognize ourselves and the world. People who are able to see things from multiple perspectives have a flexibility that makes them live with greater ease. In addition, learning to look at things from multiple perspectives can help us understand others better, make us more empathetic, more relaxed in dealing with others, and live a happier life.
15, losers when self-improvement, put down the stupid self-esteem, do not seek false equality, down to earth to do a good job of the work at hand, do not belittle the small things, and strive to do the small things to the best, obedience and respect for your leadership, learning to communicate with others and get along, you will have a future without losers.
16, when I was young, my imagination roamed, I dreamed of changing the world; when I matured, I realized that I could not change the world, I shortened my sights a bit and decided to change only my country; when I entered the twilight years, I found that I could not change my country, my last wish was simply to change my family. Then, too, this seemed impossible ...... Now that I am in bed, just as my life is about to end, I suddenly realize: if at the beginning I had first changed myself, and then, as an example, I might have done something important for my country, just as I was serving my country, I might have changed the world by some unexpected act ......
17. How does a person stand out from the competition? It's actually very simple, most of the things he has to do are small things, even some very benign things. People show themselves through details and small things. Most of the differences between people are reflected in some details and simple small things. All abilities to do great things are born from doing small things. Sometimes success is not so difficult, do a good job of others did not do or ignore the small things, you won.
18, love a person is not because he will never change to love him, but, even if you know he has the power to destroy you, you are willing to believe in him, dare to give yourself to him. That kind of trust and courage is true love. And when I think about it, I'm at peace with following him, and I won't regret it, no matter what happens. It's like, I can afford to play, to open this game, not because I have confidence or I have a fluke, because the opponent is worth the risk.
19, a person will never love another person because they are good to them. A person will never not because of the past love and in the future must always love each other. The reason a person loves another person is that the other person is lovely, love is the only reason for love.
20, good love, is that you see the whole world through a person; bad love, is that you give up the world for a person.
21, generally speaking, our pain lies in not recognizing ourselves, not clear what we want.
22, a person's emotions are the result of the interaction between his cognition and external events. This has shown me how a person's expectations and pre-evaluations of events and the internal views he holds affect his emotions, which in turn affect his behavior.
23. Often, many things in life do not hurt or affect us in and of themselves, but rather it is our pre-evaluation, viewpoints, mindset, and perceptions of the event that sway us and cause us to have different emotional experiences.
24, intimate relationships are healing. Whether it is the love given by parents, lovers or close friends, it will make a person live a healthier life, and at the same time give birth to a wave of self-confidence, even if they encounter setbacks, they will not run away, will not be afraid. The feeling that someone loves me anyway can make a person dare to live out their true self, realize their inner potential, and feel free to explore the outside world.
25, I often avoid the company of people, but also to avoid intimate relationships, only to feel the most comfortable in a person, no one has requirements for me, have expectations, I have no requirements for others, no expectations, so it is exempt from a lot of trouble and loss.
1, how you want others to treat you, how you treat others.
2. There are only two possibilities for disappointment: choosing the wrong person, or having expectations that you shouldn't have.
3. No relationship is a waste of time. If it doesn't give you what you want, it teaches you what you don't want.
4, so many years, so many people through my life, but why is it you, it seems as if the most should be a passer-by you, in my heart occupy such a heavy position.
5, love should be a magnetic field, and should not be a rope, binding him, rather than attracting him. A rope will give a man the desire to break free, while a magnetic field can give a man the illusion of freedom, and an eternal temptation.
6. There are times when you may feel that all the doors in your life are closed, but remember that closed does not mean locked.
7, young women, always looking forward to meet a warm and elegant man, rainy night he frequently for her to add incense. Young men, always hope to have a good woman, cold and heavy twilight she quietly add tea for him. Finally, hand in hand, but always that big grin for her to add clothes for the man, that cursed for him to add food for the woman. Time is not cruel, just between the beauty and true if you can only choose one, always leave the true.
8, if love can be explained, the oath can be modified, if you and I meet, can be rearranged, then, life will be easier.
9, I do not know whether it is right or wrong, no matter right or wrong, I just want to be with you, together with the sun out. There is no water, you are my water. There is no food, I am your food. We always believe in the same God and love the same destiny. Loving you, I have the softest part of the world in my body.
10, I long for that day, you quietly appeared in front of me, holding me tightly and said, you will not leave again.
11, hold a grudge the biggest bad, is to take the pain point to continue to torture themselves, the personality to get more and more distorted. Most people do not dare to take revenge in the open, so they all pick the dark attack, unknowingly, to turn themselves into a living villain.
13, you have to believe that there must be your lover in the world, no matter you are surrounded by light at the moment was drowned in applause, or at that time you are walking alone in the cold streets by the rain, whether it is drifting with a small snowy morning, or by the heat wave of the dusk, he will cross the world of the raging crowds, and one by one, he walked through them, towards you. He will find you, you must wait.
14, live, have to love. Even if this love is as small as a straw, nothing to do with warmth and satiety, but also can not save people in the fire, but, in the hands of the end is a thought.
15, each woman in love, not only for the happiness of the two hard to operate, but also for their own stay a retreat, this retreat is not something else, it is to maintain self, stay awake. Any normal relationship, there will be no retreat, unless you voluntarily cut off.
16, the only understanding for the cornerstone, tolerance for the column, to cherish for the wall, to meet the decoration, two hearts live in it will be safe.
17, if you can accept that you are not so perfect, you do not have to be busy to whitewash; if you can admit that you are not so great, you do not have to rush to prove; if you can go to give up all kinds of stereotypes of their own, there is no need to argue against; if you can not care about how other people look at their own, there is no need to cry and complain; if you can be half a beat slower, quieter, half a moment, half a head, you can be always smile.
18, the emotions of this thing, must be strictly controlled, a conniving self-pity, will be more and more depressed. --Yishu
19, a person's life is very much like walking in the fog, far away, just a piece of confusion, can not discern the direction and good or bad. However, when you muster the courage to put down the fear and doubt, step by step forward, you will find that, after each step, you can put the next step to see the road a little clearer.
20, the heart has all there is, the heart empty all empty; the heart fans all fan, the heart of all enlightenment; the heart of all evil evil, the heart of all positive; the heart of all chaotic chaos, the heart of all security; all for the heart to create, no heart since the liberation.
qq space to say mood phrases sentimental: have you, and do not have everything; lose you, I lost everything
1, you have never lost a friend, you just know who is your real friend.
2. Burying the past with my own hands will inevitably dirty my hands with the wounds you gave me, and I'll let it grow.
3, the original thought of a long time in the end is nothing but a joke
4, since love, why not say it, some things lost, in the can not come back!
5, how to say goodbye to the person you do not want to lose.
6, dear, Christmas Eve and Christmas happy!
7, can let me put on the heart of the people are not much, after all, the heart area is limited.
8, I'm not the kind of person that a few flying kisses can be sent off with the ability to you really kiss over ah
9, Christmas, Russia, and loneliness together with the hippie
10, there is no one, have to be another person, in order to get through the life
11, the most beautiful, but in the pouring rain in the heart of the confession, the most hurt, but is the two backward and the silhouette of the line.
12, he is not do not love you, just he loves more than you.
13, some of the troubles are imaginary out of thin air, and we take it as real to bear.
14, loneliness or a cigarette and a rising smoke. qq space to say mood phrases sentimental
15, have you, and do not have everything; lose you, I lost everything;
16, life is their own, do not have to use other people's standards to frame their own life.
17, every inch of soil Yes, I'm waiting, waiting for a miracle to happen, waiting for the day my beloved you will be silent, suddenly appeared in front of me Some get, not necessarily for a long time; some lost, may not have again.
18, the most panicked, and no tears, tears always flow at the end of the story, flow at the end of everything! The wound is like me, is a stubborn child, refuses to heal, because inside is a warm and moist place, suitable for anything to grow.
19, love, not only pay attention to the door is right, but also pay attention to the chess match. --- Le Mi "Qingcheng 2"
20, to give up a person is more difficult than to love a person, and to completely forget him will be even more difficult!
21, people waste because they are not happy in their hearts, is a compensatory effect.
22, loved a person, miss a soul. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it.
23, although I am not a planetary rice, but I still hope that EXO is only!
24, full of streets, inquire about the whereabouts of happiness.
25, although the loneliness of life is still dead, so life is withered.
27, I now laugh they say very charming as if from the past I never smile calmly.
28, you are wearing a fuchsia cheongsam, really like a beautiful butterfly flew over, both beautiful to weigh the body, but also soft color.
29, not every time you go back to the capital, there are people waiting for you, and not every time you reach out to someone to help you
30, no matter how good others are, we do not envy. To only compare with their own past, so that will be happier every day.
31, I always feel that your left head is flour, right head is water, shake a is a mass of paste
32, special love to the special you my loneliness can not escape your eyes
33, at that time, do not know how to cherish, meet love do not know how to love, so that I wandered in the sea of clouds wandering.
34, than the benefits of comedy is that even if the confession failed to play happily.
35, he does not love me holding hands when too cold embrace is not close enough.
36, I fell y.
37, everything goes with the flow, open up some, look down some, disillusioned when bland, complacent when frank, everything will be much simpler.
38, I wrote our story on the wall, passers-by cried when they passed by.
39. Where true love exists, there are miracles.
40, soft heart is fatal I understand but sworn allegiance.
41, there is no tragedy without tragedy, there is no sublime without tragedy.
42, standing in a humble corner looking up from afar, the water ripples no one can understand my sadness.
Very realistic classic statements, you deserve to have!
1, young thought not read enough to understand life, until later realized that if you do not understand life, is not read and understand the book. The significance of reading is probably to read with the feeling of life, and to live with what you get from reading. --Yang Jiang
2. Go faster, don't be lazy, don't be comatose, don't complain, and don't be sad. Walk faster, don't care about the weather, I know you actually have a direction. Hey, honey, run, like you've rehearsed in your dreams. --Zhang Jiajia
3, beautiful clothes and so on and then wear, fun place to be ready to go again, always put their hopes in the future, the day by day, life has not changed. It turns out that I was negligent, there is not so much future ah have just now. --Mr. Deka
4, I used to think that the people who see themselves will not be too much, need to keep shouting to be remembered. It turns out that as long as the other person has a heart, you stand in the dark with your head down, there will be people who see you. --Liu Tong
5, always live in some extreme emotions, a certain period of time will be full of confidence in life, but suddenly in a moment, you will be overturned. When you have confidence, you can do anything, and when you overthrow it all, you are also 100% discouraged. --Canoe
6, a person if you really like you, will let you know, rather than ambiguous let you guess, a person if you want to you, thousands of mountains and thousands of water will come to you, rather than a who have sent condolence information, a person if you care about you, no excuses and no hesitation will accompany you to the end, rather than self-confidently think you can really get through it all alone. The person you are looking for must have you in his future. --Hao Chen Zhang