Slowly, no matter how deep the feelings are, there are barriers. No matter how good the relationship is, there are few contacts.
? No matter how good the relationship is, it also needs distance.
In the TV series Ode to Joy, Andy and Singularity are good lovers. It is precisely because Singularity is good at investigating Andy's life experience and finding her father that Andy's anger is aroused and their feelings are contradictory for the first time.
Therefore, in interpersonal communication, no matter who you get along with, you should keep your distance. The so-called distance is not the distance between people, but the space between them. You don't participate in my life, I don't interfere in your affairs, get along well, not far away, and have a stable relationship.
? People who don't understand empathy are actually selfish.
There was a news before that the square dance aunt had an argument with the young man. The young man said that the aunts' stereo was too loud, which affected the rest, but the aunts said that no one was sleeping at this time. To this end, both sides have made great efforts. Later, after mediation by the police, the aunts left the square and went to places with few people to exercise.
When you encounter a problem, look at it from your own point of view, that is selfishness.
Put yourself in others' shoes. That is empathy. To be a man, learn to put yourself in the other's shoes, and don't just think about yourself. Wherever you are, as long as you think of others, others will think of you.
? Know how to be grateful and know how to share.
Give roses, your hands will smell sweet, throw mud, and your hands will get dirty. Rousseau, a French thinker, once said, "When we love others, we also want others to love us".
People are always mutual, and people will deal with you as you deal with them.
Therefore, no matter who you get along with, you must know how to be measured and know how to put yourself in other's shoes. Only by learning to empathize can life usher in more beauty! [] Ordinary me []?