Speaking is an art, but also a discipline, suggest that you change the current lifestyle, usually nothing when you go out more, change passive for active, you can go to the bookstore to see more with the opposite sex how to communicate with similar books, or about friends and friends of friends often go out to sit, ask those who have girlfriends how they do it? This may also be able to contact more of the opposite sex Oh, at the same time in the weekend more to participate in this kind of day trips around, more to see more contact, take the initiative to help people ah, I believe you can meet the right for you.