I grew up living in a fourth-tier city in the north, a small city you know, a little something special special people can quickly be spread. The most impressive thing is that there is a term called "old and unorthodox", which describes the old people who are different from what we think they are. For example, wearing "fancy"; play young people's things, skateboarding, street dance; and video such as the old man.
When we talk about the elderly, our stereotype is that they are grandparents, they should be kind, square dancing, playing mahjong, eager to receive free eggs, downstairs to talk about the shortcomings of the family, at home with the children. They have to be stable, have to be serious, can not do anything "out of the ordinary", because they are elders.
But the video shows a completely different love/hate relationship between older people in a corner of Beijing ......
So bla bla bla, the first minute of the video trailer, a few of us 20-somethings coincidentally red in the face, the old driver is really not ordinary. Maybe it's like the title says: we're all direct because time is running out.
The video features two characters:
Master Hu, a Beijing man who was widowed late in life and loves to brag about his sexual prowess, has spent most of his life in a sexless marriage; and Li, a divorced man who is so suave that he can't help but tease a girl out. I want you", but due to the embarrassing economic conditions, it is difficult to get off with strength. They coincidentally came to the elderly dating corner ......
In the video, Master Hu looks very direct and outgoing, and even has been a matchmaking corner of the veterans. But in talking about his deceased partner, still wiped tears.
Older people's love is more difficult than we think.
The Calabash River Park elderly blind date corner of the professor boss, there are laid-off low income households, different cultural and economic backgrounds, play different social roles in the late years of life, but also because of loneliness to get together, faced with more than the year of the "passionate years" more demanding thresholds: household registration, age, financial resources, sexuality, and even the knee is a child or a child's ability, and even a child's love. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products in the world, and you'll be able to do it in a way that's easy to understand.
So you're saying you can't talk about love after 50 or 60? Talk about sex?
Perhaps it's because we as a people naturally shy away from such words; we're subtle, and being direct would seem out of place. Plus, "How old are you." That one sentence is powerful.
But, I'm guessing that these seemingly somewhat unusual moves are probably because of the need for love at any age? Or they're too lonely and daring? Or what do you think older people should really be like?
Many times, I am still very thankful that I am a child studying journalism, and I can usually face every story of every different person openly, in the eyes of journalism, nothing strange, are just the most real model of life.
I don't know how to associate this video with a quote I saw on Weibo, but it's not that much of a connection.
If you are in a small place.
If you're not married at thirty, you're a monster.
If you get married and don't have kids, you're a monster.
Women like women, men like men, you're a monster.
You're a monster if you don't do your job at a good institution.
You don't go to graduate school after you graduate from college, you are also a monster.
You wear a super short skirt in summer, you a shameless monster.
You spend two months' salary to tattoo a flower arm, you're a fucking monster.
Honestly, there aren't a lot of monsters in small places.
Because small places don't allow monsters,
If you're a monster, you're screwed,
and everyone's trying to save you, educate you, all the time,
and for your own good, they want you to be just like them.
One person educating you is fine,
you might be able to fight it off and get by,
but when 10 people and 100 people are trying to educate you,
you're all alone, you're going to fall apart,
and you're probably going to have to go through a
long as a lifetime of sleepless nights after each one of them.
You're not going to be able to sleep, you're not going to be able to sleep, you're not going to be able to sleep.
Hey, if you're a monster, go to the big city.
Go see the world
People there are too busy to save you,
and the only thing you have to fight against is yourself.
Don't let anyone, spoil your life.