What kind of girl can make boys crazy for you?
1, learn to do what you want to "tease"
To do what you want to tease, is to let their own feelings do things, want to be good to you when you come over to tease you, do not want to be good to you when you play with their own. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this.
I sent you a message, simply because I want you, happy to do so, rather than bitter, must be given back to you, do not give no end to the Xianglin sister-in-law. I buy you things, purely because I like you, want to give you a surprise and romantic, not need you to give back the same value of things to me.
2, emotional stability, not easily angry, the key time to dare to show the bottom
In the relationship, the more emotional stability of the person, the more is able to prevail. If you are a little bit of a small thing to make trouble, hear a little bit of the wind on the angry, it is easy to let the other side to see through you at a glance. Strong words and deeds do not mean that the inner strength, the more inner stability of the woman, the more calm and certain. In the usual small things, such as information did not seconds back, date accidentally late, speak too straight, did not say morning and evening good morning and so on, don't get on the line, dead grasp not to let go.
The real powerful women know how to pretend to be confused in the relationship. Harmless little thing turn a blind eye, give each other enough space and face, in the daily life together to create a sense of pleasure, a sense of comfort, but if the other side really committed the principle of the problem, but also to fight in the end, so that the other side realize the seriousness of the problem, pay the corresponding price of the long memory, if the problem is very serious, but also have the courage to leave the dashing.
And most of the girls in love brain, often like in small things and make a fuss to coax each other. But when the principle problem arises, and because of the soft heart, fear of loss and other reasons to choose to forgive and compromise, step by step, let yourself lose the framework, the loss of the initiative of the relationship.
3, skillfully use the "law of the mirror" to get along, not on the rush of the "duck"
The law of the mirror in layman's terms, that is, how you do to me, how I do to you. In the case of a man who favors you, we have to give him positive feedback to strengthen his behavior. When he slows you down, we also need to be bold enough to chill out, pull back, create distance, and make him suffer a little. Instead of being a bully when the other person is nice to you and a pleaser when he slows you down.
Over time, the other side will feel good to you is not much use, will naturally reduce the degree of commitment in the relationship. "How other people treat you, in fact, are you taught", in the relationship, the girl should have not humble temperament, favor and shame of the calm. Being held up when to maintain a point of sobriety, be ignored when to be confident and certain, so that you can always master the emotional initiative.
4, quit "can't afford to lose" gambler thinking
Many girls will be conquering, possessive in a period of this is not worth the feelings inside the struggle, the face of the fat man, have to prove their own, but did not get the end of their own wants, and get themselves bruised. In the face of an unworthy person, unworthy feelings, the best solution is no longer entangled, turn away.
From this experience, we can learn from the experience and start a new life. I believe that "everything that happens will be in my favor" and that suffering is a gift that makes us who we are, and that a better and wider world begins with having the courage to put an end to the past.
5, "away from him can live better" aura
In a relationship, you rely on each other to a deeper degree, the more chips handed out, the more he can easily hurt you. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots. The essence of love is always value attraction, if you are in love and stop growing, your situation will become more and more passive.
The right thing to do is always the same: keep your self iterative, with mandatory front-loading of self-needs and self-improvement. When the relationship and self-growth conflict, rather force yourself to reduce the time and each other get tired of the time to spend time on self-improvement, the higher your value, the greater the choice, the more you can catch the man's heart.