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"I'll give birth to your child" is something that many women talk about. Many people are surprised by such remarks. Why do women have men? Isn't a woman the mother of a child?
Everyone says that maternal love is the greatest love in the world. According to the truth, all women should think that children are their own. Why do some women think that children are not their own children, but their own gifts to men?
This kind of woman with three views often gives people a particularly strange feeling, but in fact, women like this can hardly get real happiness because they never know how to be a mother.
A qualified mother regards her children as everything to her. A woman with an incorrect world outlook will never be a qualified mother. In their minds, children are not her own flesh and blood, but men's chips and even gifts.
In fact, this type of women usually have a psychological desire to take advantage. To give a very simple example, many women want to get filial piety from their children and make men infinitely grateful to themselves.
Since you think your child is born for a man, it proves that you have nothing to do with this child. In this case, the child naturally loves his biological father, not you, the "deliveryman".
So easy to understand, many women just don't understand.
In fact, it is particularly ridiculous for women to have men, because women are the ultimate beneficiaries of their children and grandchildren.
Uncle Zhang died two years ago. Now grandma Zhang lives an enviable life. Both her son and daughter are very promising. Her son works in a public institution with a very good income, and her daughter runs her own studio. It is said that the annual income is more than 500 thousand.
Because their father left early, they spent most of their energy on their mother. They don't want to leave any regrets in their lives, so they are usually very kind to their mothers.
Grandma Zhang takes turns to live in the children's house, not for half a year, but for a month, so that she won't feel disgusted with each other, and her daughter-in-law and son-in-law are also very kind to her.
My daughter is a person who knows life very well. All three of them are well fed and clothed. After all, their son-in-law is also excellent. Besides, they travel abroad every year, and whenever they travel, they will take Grandma Zhang with them.
Grandma Zhang went to many places, saw a lot of scenery and contacted many different cultures, which Uncle Zhang had never seen in his life.
Sometimes, my daughter thinks it would be great if my father were here. It is true filial piety that they can accompany their father on a long journey. Their father worked hard all his life and left this world without enjoying himself.
Grandma Zhang sometimes wants to live alone. After all, she wants to live alone after a long time as a child's family, so that she can taste the taste of freedom. Whenever, her son and daughter will hire a nanny for her.
Grandma Zhang usually likes to dance square dance with her sisters, and sometimes she goes out to travel together and join a group or something. In a word, life is enviable.
Grandma Zhang is seventy-five years old this year, and she is very strong. I believe it is not a problem to live for another ten or twenty years.
Uncle Zhang is completely different. His health has been deteriorating since he was sixty-five. After all, when he was young, he suffered a lot and did a lot of manual labor.
Because of this, he died two years ago.
Grandma Zhang used to quarrel with Uncle Zhang, and every time she quarreled, she said that she had given birth to a pair of children to Uncle Zhang. As long as she says so, Uncle Zhang will definitely give up, and Grandma Zhang will definitely get the upper hand.
Now it seems that Grandma Zhang's child was not born for Uncle Zhang, but for herself. On the contrary, Uncle Zhang has been running for his children all his life.
Many women always think that children with their in-laws' surnames mean that their children are born to their husbands, but in fact, most of them finally enjoy the welfare of their children.
As for the reason, I think everyone is very clear. According to the survey, the average life expectancy of men is 72 years and that of women is 75 years. In fact, in real life, the life gap between many couples is not limited to these.
For a simple example, some men died at the age of 70, but their wives lived to be over 80 or even 90.
In a sense, men raise their children for women, because most men have died when they can rely on their children. Women can enjoy their old age and be filial by their children and grandchildren.
These are naked cases in real life. Many couples come here like this. You can also observe them. It can also be seen from the census that after the age of 65, there are fewer men than women, but before the age of 65, there are more men than women.
What does this mean? This shows that after the age of 65, men gradually die, while women are still alive, and women live longer than men. This is a universally acknowledged and unchangeable fact.
A woman's child is born for herself. If there are no children, a woman's old age will be particularly terrible, and she can even be described as helpless.
Uncle Wang and his wife are well-known Dinks. They had a good life when they were young, and they never thought about having children. They think they can live happily all their lives.
But how is that possible? Even if two people fall in love again, it is impossible to leave this world at the same time. After Uncle Wang died, Grandma Wang really felt what loneliness was.
Uncle Wang left at the age of 72. Now that five years have passed, great changes have taken place in Grandma Wang's personality.
Grandma Wang used to be a very lively person. After all, life has been smooth and smooth, there is no shortage of money at home, and there is no need to worry about raising children, so she lives in the way she wants every day.
The two of them cling to each other and love each other, which is probably envied by many people. But when Uncle Wang left, Grandma Wang's life seemed to collapse instantly, and she didn't know how to face the next day.
Grandma Wang is a person who yearns for freedom. She definitely doesn't want to stay at home, so it's very good to go out for a walk whenever she has time, either traveling or dancing in the square dance, or walking, shopping and watching movies with her husband.
But now grandma Wang has become very withdrawn. She doesn't like going out at ordinary times. She hardly leaves home except shopping. Her appearance is also very haggard, and her eyes are full of loneliness.
And those old ladies who gave birth to children, the result is completely different. Although their husband has passed away, they have been carefree because they have their own children.
People are mutual and children will be filial to their mothers. Mothers have to bear this identity, and women who take their children as chips or even give them to men as gifts are not worthy of being mothers at all, let alone being filial.
Maybe this is a bit harsh for many people, but this is the reality. If you can, you can ask your children to see if there is any child in the world who is willing to accept the fact that he is a gift from his mother to his father.
If so, I think the child's favorite will be his father. As for the mother, it seems that she is a dispensable person.
If a woman wants to get the love of her children, she must understand that she is a mother. If everyone can't achieve such an identity, it is better not to enter such a role, so as not to hurt two generations.
What children really need is always a mother, a mother who loves herself, and definitely not a delivery person.
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