I dance with several single sisters, they are more than 50 years old, as to why they would rather proudly single, not want to humble love, I was with them to discuss, they are in fact divided into several categories of people, I'll use A B C D to categorize:
A sister, children into a family, the family grandson grandchildren have, her husband died of illness a few years ago, a solid family, their own pension, in Chengdu has several houses, and shops for rent, a year's income of nearly 200,000 yuan, she initially still want to find a boyfriend, but she is very beautiful, elegantly dressed, and she is a good person. Pension, in Chengdu, there are several sets of houses, and stores for rent, a year's income of nearly 200,000, people are beautiful, elegant dress, she initially still want to find a boyfriend, but the conditions are slightly better, similar age, people want to look for some younger, much older than her she shall not find, met than her young, conditions are poorer, her children are afraid of people are liars, so, for several years, she is with her son! The first time I saw this is when I was a child, and it was a very good thing that I was a child.
B sister, thin, wearing a pair of glasses, speak softly, Siswenwen look, when she was young, her husband disliked the daughter she gave birth to, never see her, and ultimately divorced and married, she raised her daughter, her daughter has been married and had a child, she has been living with her daughter, with a pension, but she still chose to work, empty time to dance, she does not believe in men, the mind can not be put, the man has prejudice, she has always been alone, she has always been a man, and she is a man, and she is a man, and she is a man. She has a prejudice against men and is always alone. She thinks that she is a simple person and is dedicated to bringing up her grandchildren. She wonders if there will be a man in the future who will know her and understand her and pity her and love her, and she hopes that there will be a man.
C sister, her husband died a few years ago, there is a pension, and now help people with dolls, a month of 3000 salary, with a few years, the doll more like her, brought us to dance here to play, a very good girl, this sister short, no meter five it, every time you come to the dance to wear half-heeled shoes, appearance is not handsome, but there is a smiley face, we all like! She has a son, and daughter-in-law can not get along, she said to find a man to take care of him, in the end, can not fall a good, it would be better to help others with dolls, she has a low level of culture, said it is very direct, but I think what she said is also reasonable.
Ding sister, 50 years old, just retired, her daughter gave her a few thousand dollars a month, she did not go to work, the body is healthy, walk with the wind, divorced, a person to raise the eldest daughter, her ideas and the previous few sisters are different, she usually like to look at the book, write writing, play the harmonica, dance, go out Tourism, she is looking forward to a good relationship, but she does not want people to introduce, in other words, people introduced to her, she can not see, in other words, she is not a good person, but she is a good person. In other words, she does not want to be introduced to others, in other words, she can not see, she wants to see the right eye, single for several years, she lived every day happy, not anxious, every day back a portable stereo dancing in the park, smiling like a flower, initially she was a person to dance, and now it is to bring a group of people to dance, do not charge a penny, to the stereo charging, back the stereo for all of us, every day happy, as if she never had a problem, perhaps, she had long been accustomed to the loneliness, but also The first time I saw this, I was able to see it.
Ultimately, the woman is single, in fact, very good!
Because of the high standard, not to be. Take myself as an example. I am 69 years, single for twenty years, I have a job that can support themselves and their daughters, there is no problem with food and drink.
So many years, there are friends and relatives introduced, but they are not suitable, young people will not be, the old is even more can not. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one, but I'm sure you'll be able to get a good deal on a new one.
First of all, this person needs to have a stable career job, I don't like to lie flat at home, even if he is rich. Think a man must have his own career to be attractive, I like two people work together that kind of feeling. I like the feeling of two people going to work together. The appearance is old, but the heart is still as romantic as when I was young, I can't change it, I can't help it.
Secondly, this person must have knowledge, the degree of culture must be above me. I am extremely concerned about the spiritual dimension of life, can not talk about together never accept. In our small county, when the age of the examination on the secondary school above the college and not many, the phoenix hair of the highly educated man, which woman will give up divorce? So, I am destined to be single for the rest of my life.
Ten years ago, there was a good friend introduced to the doctor, undergraduate medical school, the local hospital internist, appearance can be accepted. But get along with a few months, and can not stand his unkempt, heavenly ...... or forget it, so old why should we condemn ourselves? If you can endure, when not divorced endure ex-husband how good!
Perhaps my character is destined to be single for the rest of my life! I can't help it, I'm so stubborn in this matter. I think it's good to be single, to be free, to not have to cater to anyone. Now, I've lived the way I want to live: writing articles, listening to music, hiking and mountaineering ...... There are still 28 months to go before I retire, and I'll pick up my bag and go on the poor trips and idyllic life that I've longed for.
Without the right umbrella, I'd rather get wet!
Let's not just talk about old ladies in their 50s, even middle-aged women in their 30s and 40s still don't want to be single all day long.
A man who divorces in the front foot is likely to marry again in the back foot. The same is not true for women, who let the years pass by after the divorce, and are never in a hurry to renew their love affair.
To be honest! The first marriage of the object is generally after a thousand choices, can always find out some of the advantages of the heart. If you want to get married again, look around at the oil head big belly of the middle-aged men, your heart is not moving how to act?
Ms. Liu is 54 this year, when she was in her early 30s, she was in the age of beauty, and was inexplicably kicked by her husband. The reason for this is that there is a female doctor who has given Sister Liu the green, and people want to take over the nest.
After learning the hard way, Liu examined herself as a powerless, hardworking, laid-off worker in a state-run factory. In the end, she didn't even ask for custody of her son, so she netted her family.
Her parents are full of ideas to get her to talk about remarrying again.
These are the first time I've ever seen a man in a house, and I've never seen one in a house.
More than 30 years of age, the old man she can not see, but people of the same age where there are so many suitable queuing up for her? The first time I saw this, I was able to see a woman who was remarried in the same era.
Remarriage is like talking business, work, house, car, children, parents, in their own minds to talk about. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on a new one, and you'll be able to get a good deal on a new one. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on a new product, and then you can get it back.
How to talk about marriage when you are young, there is a trace of impulse in it. After that, Ms. Liu realized that it was easy to be single. No need to get up early to cook, no need to worry about children's studies, no need to rush home after work. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. There are classes, there is money, there are parents, there are friends, there is time to yell at each other, this is the best time in one's life, right? Lao Yao is the eldest princess in the "Little Shepherd", and she is well-born and married. The reason for the divorce was that her husband's career was too successful, and his mistresses were all over the place, and they were beautiful. Finally, a woman as beautiful as her, but younger than her, squeezed her out. The son with the old Yao, her husband pays 30,000 a month in alimony. The divorce gave her two suites, plus 800,000 yuan in cash. The first time I saw her, I was so happy to see her, and I was so happy to see her. Moreover, the husband still misses the old love, often go to her to change the furniture, buy a mink, send some jewelry. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products in the world, and you'll be able to do that. Colleagues privately joked that the old Yao from the room into a small three, her husband is even more favorable to her. Asked Lao Yao to think about getting married again, she said that only fools get married! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the work you're doing, and then you'll have to pay for it. The world's working and wealthy women don't want to remarry, because she doesn't need to count on anyone to get rich. Likewise, she doesn't want to fall into the trap of someone else's love. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money from the government! Nowadays, the more women resist aging, the more narcissistic. The mood is not good, buy clothes, look in the mirror, immediately full blood resurrection run out and spring wind to a date. A different era, there is no man in the house, women still live a good life. The first time I saw this, I was able to get the ball rolling, and the second time I saw it, I was able to get the ball rolling. 2. Nowadays, women have jobs, income, retirement protection, money than men can rely on. Who would fall into a marriage without certainty of self-torture? Three, free and easy, less involved and less hung up. There is no family trivia trip leg, no husband and wife responsibilities labor, there is the sound of silk and bamboo mess ear, picturesque eyes. Four, occasionally lucky to meet a good eye, in-depth exchanges, I go, see you again to avoid the fear. This way, you can go wherever you want, and stay wherever you want, so what's wrong with that? Said so much, as a woman, you will still mind their 50s single? I went there to feel the 50-70-year-old woman in particular, going to the morning market in the morning, during the day to go to the park, and sometimes to participate in activities, selling health medical equipment, do moxibustion, etc. 80% are old women, the old man have gone to where? Is it true that the old men have a short life expectancy, did not pay attention to the care of the body when young, drinking and smoking. I have a male student more than 50 years old, high blood pressure and heart disease, young people like to drink and smoke, 52 years old heart attack on the death, the child is not married, what a pity, people should cherish themselves, cherish life. My neighbor has a sister, 60 years old, the old man to divorce her, the old man always go to the ballroom dancing, know a woman in her 50s, the two individuals jumped out of the feelings, the old man and the old lady divorce, the old lady want money to house, the old lady does not give to go away one point does not give the house you don't want to, the old man looked at not give to hit the old lady, the incisors knocked out also did not give, but the old lady said that I'm leaving with you, you'll be single to quit, the old man said that I'll leave with you, you'll be single to quit, and you will not give anything. The old man looked at what do not give also leave, after leaving and he danced with the woman not a long time to get married, the second year the old man to go to Penjieshan casting nets to fish a big wave to him buckle the sea did not come out of the dead, another man did not, so the men cherish the love and care of a good home, safe and happy to live a good life in their twilight years is true. First, because the old ladies now know better to clean themselves, afraid of some old men are not clean. Second, the old ladies now have the ability to survive on their own. Not willing to go back to a bad old man to serve. [face][face][face][face][face][face][face][face] It's possible that what I'm saying is too blunt and will hurt some people. Just being honest. Please forgive me. [Prayers][Prayers][Prayers] By international standards, 45-65 is middle-aged and 50 is an old lady? All the women you've seen around 50 are old ladies? First of all you have bad eyesight, you are at least in your 70s? [face][face][face][face] Now the old lady in her 50s is indeed very popular, it can be said that some people dress up, it really is a small aunt, people see people chasing. Some people say that men get divorced on the front foot and get married on the back foot , but women are different, after the divorce, they know that the past is remembered, and some of them want to be able to remarry someday and live with their ex-husbands again. This is the difference between a woman and a man's approach to marriage. But nowadays old women in their 50s do want to be single, because they have been bound by marriage all their lives and do want to live in their own space. Another reason is that the 50-year-old woman is very picky, if you are remarried, or looking for another half, is particularly picky, they are like looking for their first love as a general, left and right, But see the side of the greasy head of the belly of the middle-aged and elderly men, they are not moving how to act. I'll just say I met an old lady in the big square, and she let me introduce a younger one to her. She's Sister Ma from our neighborhood, 51 years old, and she parted ways with her husband when she was 40 years old, because he green-lighted her. It got very unpleasant at the time. Every time she mentions her marriage, Ma is always despondent, because she doesn't know how she got to this point, how she was greened by her husband in an inexplicable way. She said that she was a flower in the community, has been a stable job, in a small state-owned enterprises to work in obscurity to the present, the final marriage is such an end, they are very upset. In fact, every day I can see the horse sister is very dashing, dressed up very fashionable, walked to her front all the perfume flavor. It is understood that Ma's parents are still alive, they are also worried about their daughter's marriage, but also to the surrounding neighbors said that let their daughters introduced to the object. But I'm quite impressed with the fact that the woman has been single for 11 years, and if the average woman really can't help it, she'll be able to get married. But I'm impressed that she's been single for 11 years. But the requirements for marriage are not low, job, house, car, children, parents, in their own minds to talk about it. If these points do not reach the degree of their satisfaction will not open the door to marriage, the most is to see a side to eat a meal only. Sometimes I feel like I'm just starting out on the right foot, with a lot of demands and high standards. I have introduced three of them to you, and they all went away, Mostly because of the high demand from her, the conditions are not low, and the dowry has scared a lot of people away. The most important thing is that the requirements for her marriage are the same as those for the first marriage, 16 cars, one can't be less. And the head car must be worth over a million dollars. Sometimes I laugh when I hear this condition, but Ma is single by strength, so her condition is really a boss problem. But it's very realistic. I myself feel that older women in their 50s are really still in demand, they have their own savings, their own income, their own stable residence. No matter what time they are able to dress themselves up, and go out and make up and dress up are very often, a person's life is really living a full blooded life From the Ma sister's body I have also analyzed the reason why now more than 50 years old single old woman especially, I also have their own point of view. Am I right, what do you think? The reason why many women in their fifties are single is that there are several reasons Firstly, many single women in their fifties are affected by the influence of some poisonous chicken soup, and they do not take into account the shortcomings of their own age when they are choosing their remarried partners, and they are always putting forward some excessive requirements to the middle-aged and elderly men, such as asking the men to take care of the family's financial rights, and asking the men to take care of the family at once. The financial power of the family, to the man a one-time demand for the so-called dowry, etc., and even more so that those middle-aged and elderly men, the original property plus their names, these unreasonable conditions, so that the middle-aged and elderly men really understand these women in their fifties, not at all in the search for a companion! Second, there is a part of the personal quality, cultural cultivation of higher women, they are due to their own quality is very high, in the choice of partner again, the vision of the natural will be much higher than the ordinary people, but, at present, all aspects of the conditions of the better middle-aged men, rarely choose the age of the older women, these excellent men, most of them will be associated with the younger women, which makes those more than 50 years old, the excellent quality of women, can only be too much. The first thing that you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need! In addition, the fifty-something women single, but also with their high not, low not on the choice of spouse standard related to the conditions of good men, even if the fifty-six years old, but also not worried about finding a relatively young, the same is to spend money, who do not want to choose a little better it! A single woman in her 50s does not want to start a family, but it is too difficult to meet someone who is compatible in every way. 53-year-old Zhao is an elementary school teacher, more than a decade ago, as a police officer lover died in the line of duty. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said. The daughter has lived up to her reputation and has applied to study at a French university. A child is not around, a person's life is inevitably lonely, in friends and family persuasion, she is determined to find a like-minded people **** the rest of their lives. Li is a retired cadres of the organization, the monthly pension of seven or eight thousand dollars. A son and a daughter, both have become a family, Li's parents are still alive, they live with Li, the family has a nanny to wait for both parents. The two men met at Mr. Li's home. Li greeted Zhao and the introducer, and went into the kitchen to make lunch. The first time I saw him, I saw him in the kitchen, and then he went into the kitchen to cook the lunch. Big Sister Zhao took the initiative to go over and help, making a rich meal. Big Brother Li is tall and strong, with wisdom hidden between his eyebrows. Ms. Zhao felt that she was not worthy of him at all. Unexpectedly, Big Brother Li said he was satisfied with Big Sister Zhao. Big Brother Li said; "At our age, unlike young people, we still need to fall in love for a few years. If there is no problem with each other, I hope to get married earlier." Brother Li made plans for the future, " Your salary, you keep it for yourself. Living expenses will be covered by me. I have to put aside a portion of my money every month to help my kids with their mortgage payments. If we get married, the nanny won't be needed so that life can be a little more generous." Zhao big sister heard and understood, Li big brother which is looking for an old partner ah, is looking for a free nanny, to help him together to wait for both parents. Colleagues introduced her to a skilled laborer a year younger than herself, Master Shang. The coworker said that although Master Shang is a laborer, he earns more than 5,000 a month and occasionally takes on private work to earn extra money. This age to find a partner, focusing on the quality of life. What occupation, Zhao did not mind very much. The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't want to be a part of this, but I'd like to be a part of it, and I'd like to be a part of it, and I'd like to be a part of it. My colleague said that the other side is a person who cares about the eye, not the age. In the colleague's house, Zhao met the master, strong body, dark and healthy skin color, so that the master looks much younger than the actual age. Master Shang said openly and honestly: "His wife had a terminal illness a few years ago, in order to cure his wife, the big house into a small house, but also borrowed a lot of foreign debt, the money spent quite a lot, but did not keep people." Speaking to the emotional point, eyes flooded with tears. Zhao Daisy was touched by Master Shang's deep feelings. "After several years of hard work, the external debt has been paid off. Now I want to find a good woman with a house for the rest of my life." Master Shang said with some difficulty, "My son is now in a girlfriend, has been talking about marriage, their own currently can not get the money to buy a house for their son, so he hopes to find a woman with a house, they move out, the house to vacate to his son to get married." Big brother repeatedly said that after marriage, housework, their own package. "Children need money to get married, I am currently saving a little short of money, if you can help me a little, after my son married, I will give you the payroll card, the future life are at your disposal." Zhao Da Sister heard and understood that this is not to see her as a person, but to see her house. The neighbor said, "Although the cousin is from the countryside, his family is very prosperous, and his family has a cattle farm, several acres of orchards, and several greenhouses. The family has a cattle farm, a few acres of orchards, and several greenhouses. The two sons are married and have no financial burdens." Zhao followed her neighbors and experienced a day trip to the farmhouse. At dinner time, there was a large family of grandchildren. Ms. Zhao, who usually eats alone, felt the joy of children and grandchildren around her knees for the first time. Cousin is a very real person, he took the initiative to say, "We are very destined, if we can become a family, I'm willing to give you 5,000 yuan every month, as the living expenses of the two of us." Cousin took a sip of wine and then said, "My own age is also old, and I can't do the farm work anymore, so let my sons take care of the work at home, and I can buy a house in the city as a place for us to live." Zhao Da Sister felt that although her cousin is a rural person, he understands the world. Cousin stammered and discussed with Zhao, "Son and daughter-in-law are usually very busy and can't take care of their children, so when we start a family, we want to bring our four grandchildren to live in the city." The cousin gave his own reasons, "His own culture is not high, delayed the two sons, want to let the grandchildren can become productive people, the city's schools are good, and you're a teacher, teach the children should not be a problem, right?" Daisy Zhao is not ready to be a grandmother to four children. One night, after dinner with her friends, Zhao was on her way home in a taxi when she suddenly had a huge pain in her stomach. The driver, Master Qi, did not say a word and sent her directly to the hospital. Zhao had an acute appendicitis and needed an operation. The driver, Mr. Qi, took the initiative to advance the medical expenses, and waited outside the operating room until Zhao's brother arrived, and then left silently. Ms. Zhao found Master Qi on the basis of the phone number he left at the hospital. To show her appreciation, Ms. Zhao invited him for a meal. Ms. Zhao learned that Master Qi has no parents, no children, divorced his wife for cheating on him in the early years, and has not had a girlfriend since. The two people talked very much, and they became friends over time. Slowly, the feelings of the two people warmed up. Master Qi began to pursue Zhao Da Sister, two lonely people sympathize with each other. When talking about marriage, Master Qi proposed to do a physical examination at the hospital. Without giving it much thought, Zhao Da Sister follows the program chosen by Master Qi for her medical checkup. "I like children, can you give me a child, the medical examination proves that we can still have children. "Master Qi said with the medical report. Zhao Daqi felt that are so old, having a child is a very risky thing, and refused the request of Master Qi, the two people therefore broke up. The TV station's Red Queen is also enthusiastic, and first introduced three male guests to the sister, which is quite good. The first male guest, 60 years old, just retired, a variety of conditions are not bad, love to read, love travel, which coincides with the hobbies of the Zhao big sister After meeting, the big brother straight to the Zhao big sister's appreciation. The two men didn't say a few words and went straight to the point, talking about the life after marriage. The big brother came up with the idea of an AA system for living expenses. He believes that two people become a family, is a family, living expenses should be **** the same to bear. It's not that Big Sister Zhao can't take that half of the living expenses, but it just feels like something's not right? This brother, although his looks are average, but the person is cleaned up like. He spoke directly from his heart, he felt that Zhao Da Sister looks old and older. His ideal object should be about 5 years younger than himself. Hearing the red lady introduce that Zhao's salary, five or six thousand dollars a month, the man immediately began to praise Zhao's good temperament and culture. It turns out that this big brother, only one thousand three hundred and forty-four per month labor insurance, and do not have their own housing, and currently and other people share the rent, he hoped to immediately move to Zhao Da Sister's home to live. He gave Zhao a lot of promises, put out 3,000 dollars a month for living expenses, at Zhao's discretion, and another 2,000 dollars a month for the big sister to be saved as a security deposit. He also said that he could take Zhao to live in the south in winter and return to live in the north in summer. If her health condition permits, she will be able to travel abroad every year. He said with a straight face. His own ability to live is relatively poor, after the marriage, like laundry, cooking, clean up the house ...... these chores, have to be done by Zhao big sister, he needs Zhao big sister to serve him. He has to sign a contract with Zhao Da Sister, the money he saved for Zhao Da Sister, must wait until after his death to take out, which can not be moved before. If Big Sister Zhao can't serve him until he dies, then Big Sister Zhao won't get a penny of the money he deposited. Zhao simply wanted to start a family and have a companion in her life, not to be too lonely, not realizing that there are all kinds of conditional pits hidden here. Now, Zhao gave up the idea of remarriage, she felt that she could not cope with the various conditions attached to remarriage. She decided to participate in various senior citizen groups when she could walk, and when she couldn't walk, she went to an old age home to spend the rest of her life. Now most of the fifty women can not be said to be an old lady, cultured, well maintained, rich and well-dressed, not worse than the thirty-something. Fifty years old single and then find a grandfather to serve on, that must not have lived to understand.
The square dance with the older sister, introduced her to a 60-year-old brother Li