Yesterday, on the second day of my short four-day trip home (to be honest, if not for my mom's soft and hard to get me back, I would still be on the street with my girlfriends to eat or lying in the dormitory to swipe the cell phone), my mom finally "can not help" let me watch a TV series she has been talking about for a long time. But this time, after watching only four episodes, I was attracted by the hero's unique ideas, and even more so, I felt a little **** feeling!
The following views only represent personal views:
Moral abduction, everyone must be the so-called "traditional Chinese virtues", "moral constraints" brainwashed, one to you do not comply with or do not promote a little, you seem to become a Sinner, will be "spurned" and even despised by society. Very small things such as bus or subway seat, you do not let it, it seems that you do not have the culture and upbringing, do not respect the elderly and love the young, do not promote the traditional virtues of the Chinese people, you let it, but you are not willing to ah, why do you occupy the seat of your hard even the buttocks have not been sitting on the hot to be given to the people who may be allowed to let the person is a laughing and joking, the pace of the grandfather, and even a small advantage, would for two cents, the people who have been given the seat to the people who have been given to the people. Small bargains, will be for two cents to curse the whole street granny, at this time, I was thinking: why do we let the seat? In my house, there is only one 5 bus to the city center, I remember every time the car from the starting station out less than two stops later, the car will come up one after another some old people, many times I can "surprise" to find that the old people from a stop up has filled the whole bus, by the way, all are senior card! At this point, the atmosphere on the bus immediately became active, as if a square dance was about to start. Almost all non-elderly people would get up to give up their seats for fear that they would be tired if they got up late. But what about me? After giving up my seat once or twice, I really don't want to give up anymore, and if I do, well, it depends on how my mood is today! Even if the grandmother next to me at this moment is torturing me with hot eyes, even if these aunts are hotly discussing how tired they are, there are a lot of people in the car, but there is no seat. I do not want to pay attention to all of them, just turn my head to look at the scenery outside the car, but in my heart is an indescribable taste: I am also very tired ah, but I came up earlier than you, why do I have to give up my seat in order to get the approval of others, and now who cares if you have not given up your seat, but only when you did not give up your seat with the "moral right" counting down your right (). After all, there are a lot of gloating people); on the other hand, I think what if someone else is really tired? Should I give up my seat or not? After a while, I didn't bother to think about it. After all, you can't come up with a solution for this kind of thing. People can not be waiting for the car later on the elderly can squeeze into the car to let themselves out of the car to go to their destinations, people will have their own selfishness, just the size of the problem of selfishness, we can not because the person does not allow the seat to go to the people of selfishness, right. To put it mildly, all human gains and practices should be built on their own comfort, no small me, where big me.
Many parents require their children to realize their own once thought but did not realize the dream, in accordance with their own arrangement of the road to develop their own, do not allow children to "run off", there are also many parents of the idea is to "raise a child to prevent old age", such a thing! This is a common occurrence. For the first thing, we can only be silent is reasonable, playing the card of affection to persuade parents; but if you meet a tough parent, to put it bluntly, that is to play a protracted psychological warfare, slowly grinding, see who first collapse. For the latter kind of thing, the male lead in the drama said very well, if you raise us is to prevent old age, then you do not say mother love father love how great! If my father becomes a vegetable, then I would rather pull out the oxygen tube than continue to let him live without dignity in this world. Even if I am just short of the last 10,000 dollars to bring my father back to life, then I will not pay for it, but let him die. Such words do sound cold and heartless, but there is no filial piety to speak of, and they do not even seem to be speaking in human terms to his brothers and sisters, but compared to those foolishly loyal and those sons and daughters who only know how to smash pots and pans, he is considered to be a very rational and mature person. We filial piety if only to repay the parents of the grace of parenting, that we are actually not good, because filial piety and parenting is the most natural and most normal thing, it should be the nature of man, naturally, and how much you do not necessarily related to the more not because you do not have pots and pans can be sold on the show that you are "beasts"! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on your own.
Once I read a story, the child's private school needs to raise funds for the cause of love, all the children in the class are 500 yuan, 600 yuan, but there is a child only took out 5 dollars, the class teacher is very strange, asked him why only donate so little, the child raised his head and said: other parents hundreds of thousands of millions of dollars a year, donate 500 yuan, not much, or even a fraction of a dollar. Not much, not even a fraction, but my mom only a few hundred dollars a month salary but still for me to study, no effort, 5 dollars for our family is already a great deal of expenditure. Donate love to see is not the amount of money, we can not because of the number of money on the content of this person's love on the line, after all, you let a meager income of people out of a few days or even a week's worth of meal money in exchange for a media report or just a certificate of encouragement is very unrealistic, people, always have to face the reality of the wood, rice, oil, salt, and only when you are rich and wealthy have the ability to talk about the romance of the petit bourgeoisie. This also makes me can not help but think of the boyfriend in order to invite the long-distance girlfriend to eat Western-style food but have to save their own noodles half a month of the story, it is clear that such a love is bound to be not long.
Kindness, always have to consider the first of their own, excessive kindness will only make people feel too good to bully (there is a sentence is not that people are good to be bullied, the horse is good to be ridden it.) Even by the so-called "moral" kidnapping, become the so-called "goodness" of the victims. With a little selfish kindness, I think it is the most lovely.