Let's take a moment to think about it, the things you don't like about your elders are because they grew up in a particular environment that created the characteristics that are common in their generation.
For example, like nagging, love to worry, often superstitious, extremely save ... ... and then for example, son preference. They want to have more children, are comfortable with the status quo, and don't dare to take risks, etc. They were born in that particular era and were subjected to a lot of stress. They were born in that special era, by the overall environmental impact, did not receive any education, have not seen what the world, not capable of doing some deep thinking, not capable of giving some insights. They are faced with the inadequacy of their own thinking and ability level, not they can watch movies and TV dramas, listen to novels and dance in the square, they can break through with hard work. Decades of youthful years are face to face, is the era created their overall past, and today we have the qualities are not only unique to a small group, but the new era of the new background of most people are given.
If we resent our parents and elders today for being outdated, ignorant, and snobbish, without taking into account the historical context and life circumstances in which they grew up in the first place, we will fall into narrow individualism. Our thoughts and behaviors will flow unnaturally, will invariably be transmitted to our next generation, many years later, you are also bound to be eliminated by the newer times, your future views and behaviors are very likely to be occupied by the mainstream social position of the children do not understand, your parents today in front of you in the situation will become a mirror, reflecting many years later in front of your children's appearance.
In fact, we might as well jump out and imagine, if you also grew up in the era of your parents, you and your parents are the same age, with similar life experiences, today you as an old aunt, your thoughts and behaviors today can exceed your parents? Your children can surpass you and your siblings today?
People of different generations get along together, to maximize the benefits, that is, mutual understanding and tolerance.