However, in the later years, many parents learned through comparison that in a two-daughter family with two daughters, their parents' later life was easier.
Aunt Qian's family is two daughters. Most girls are gentle and considerate. These children have received a good education since childhood. Aunt Qian and her husband saved the dowries of their two daughters, and their daughters grew up and became married.
Aunt Qian and her husband both have pensions. When I have nothing to do, I dance square dance downstairs. When they are free, they will travel with their husbands. Aunt Qian's life in her later years is still quite moist.
Daughters often come back to see Aunt Qian after they get married. Aunt Qian and her husband didn't feel lonely, but felt that their lives were worthwhile.
On the other hand, Aunt Zhou, who has two sons, has been saving money for her sons all her life. When she was young, in order to save her son a "wife's book", she neglected to educate her son, which made the child difficult to manage.
Both sons are married, and Aunt Zhou often supports the children and helps to take care of them. She has been busy all her life.
Now they know that the family life of their two daughters is still very easy.
Two-daughter family
The two daughters at home are equivalent to two intimate little cotton-padded jackets at home. If you have a good education, you don't have to worry about your parents all your life, and it's easy for your parents to get married. It would be even more beautiful if your children could come back and visit often.
A family of two sons
If two daughters are two small cotton-padded jackets and two sons are two leather jackets, they look very handsome. If they don't dress properly, there may be some air leakage.
The boy has been full of energy since he was a child and always asks to go out to play. He chatters in his parents' ears like a "leather monkey" every day. Parents love and hate boys.
It is said that boys are "construction banks". There are two boys at home, so parents should be prepared to invest more.
A family with a son and a daughter.
The most difficult thing for a son and a daughter in the family is the "fair treatment" of parents. If the elderly in the family prefer boys to girls, the daughter will definitely not want to, and life will definitely be a chicken flying a dog jumping.
In fact, no matter what family, parents' education is the key to a good life. If you want your son to be independent and your daughter to be independent, every family will live well.
In a family with two children, if the children are twins, and they are the second and the eldest born at different times, the education of parents will be more troublesome.
Don't be partial, parents should treat each other equally.
This is the most important point. Adults are always unconsciously eccentric, and they don't even know that their behavior is eccentric. Let me give you some examples.
"You are a brother. What's wrong with playing with toys for a while? "
"You are a sister. Take care of your brother and bring him more. "
If parents always take care of the baby and ignore Dabao, Dabao will definitely feel wronged, feel that his mother is unfair, and will be unhappy when he grows up.
When taking care of the second child, let Dabao participate.
On the premise that parents give their children equal love, Dabao can intervene moderately when taking care of the baby. Children are actually little angels. When they know that their parents love them, they will also spread their love to the whole world.
When Sun Li gave birth to her sister, she put a gift on her bed and told her brother that it was for you. My brother naturally has a good impression and expectation for her.
She asked her brother to teach her sister life and skills, which gave her brother an invisible sense of pride and responsibility.
Parents give their children enough love to make them feel more secure, and at the same time let the two children support each other to grow up.
What kind of family model is your family?