Yesterday's incident, I am reluctant to mention, but in order to not let more people encounter, decided to write down.
After dinner, has been 7:30, has entered the late autumn in Shenzhen at this time the sky has been completely dark, and Wu Caiqin (hereinafter referred to as Wu) two people decided to go out for a walk to eat, by the way, also talk about the recent situation, we are in the base of the company's greenway walk, the road has been walking for nearly three years, and the road there will always be coming and going from work colleagues, so naturally, not to have a heart of defense, the two people are not reckless! Chatting, although I have long known that a man beside me (about thirty years old, less than 1 meter 7, wearing glasses, blue plaid shirt and khaki pants, typical geek look) cycling speed is very slow (to maintain the speed of my two walks) in less than three steps away from me all the way along the same, but because of the place is too familiar with, as well as arrogance (think of their own two people are also 1 meter 7, other people will not move what mind), did not pay attention to, all the way along the road to the greenway, I was not sure what I was talking about, but I did not know that I was not going to do anything. ), I did not pay attention to, all the way to talk about the world, probably that person and we walked about half an hour, until we have to turn to the next intersection, to see the side of the road, someone is playing the guitar, so it stopped, then Wu asked me, the side of this person is not all the way with us in the walk? I said yes, what a coincidence, I had seen him, and then Ng said it was a bit unusual, why don't we try to walk a bit to see if he will follow us. Sure enough, he followed...
? Fortunately, we are in the downtown, and in their own more familiar place (to reveal, we are drilling into the square dance brigade to get rid of that person), the brain a burst of vertigo, in the fifth road of that song and dance boom place stood for a long time, constantly in the recollection of just now they said what words, a little bit of can not remember, surrounding the radio music also seems to be a thousand miles away, but the only picture in my mind is the person in my side, especially The first thing I want to do is to get rid of him and turn into a street on purpose, and when I turn around, I see that figure again, and that figure is only three meters away from me, and I keep replaying the scene.
I hope that people who read this article, as a warning, the following is a few suggestions (thanks to Mr. Zeng, know things have been helping me to analyze and summarize the recommendations):
1. girls do not go out alone at night, as a last resort, try to walk in the crowd, the light is bright place;
2. If you find that you are being followed, you can go into a store and find a boss who looks mean and ask for help to scold the person away;
3.? Use some techniques to determine if it is stalking, and after confirming that it is stalking, find a crowded place to call your family to come pick you up, and don't go home alone;
4.? Handle it according to the worst scenario, because you don't know whether the person is a pervert or a stalker, don't have any illusions, because usually the admirer who will use stalking in this way will turn into a pervert very fast;
5.? Found strangers walking next to each other, the content of the conversation should not involve personal information, such as home address, such as living environment, contact information and so on;
6.? If you are a girl, it is better to practice some self-defense, because the most reliable is only yourself;
7.? This is the last advice Mr. Tsang gave me, see below.
This world, this country, I love. Always thought that there would be more good people (may be a bit indifferent or selfish, at least not endangering others), and try my best to be a good person myself, it seems that it is still not enough to suddenly zoom out of the space, life is so fragile, must strengthen the awareness of self-protection. Although just being followed, but encountered this kind of thing on the human psyche will be very harmful, at least I will never run alone at night again, this feeling is really difficult to describe, last night I woke up several times, had a nightmare, well, I dreamed of my high school homeroom teacher, he assigned homework I did not write, he was checking the homework one by one, high school graduated 5 years, the first time I dreamed of the old Deng (old Deng do not get angry, you will always be my respected teacher, thank you for not giving up on me in high school).