1, married for a long time do not forget to praise each other
Many couples due to get along with the time is too long, always ignore the flash point of the partner, more to see each other's shortcomings, and even unlimited amplification, however, this is very much affecting couples, no matter how long you are married, don't forget to find each other's strengths, and praise, even if it's a small thing, you need to give each other affirmation, so that the other person feel your love and care. The other side to feel your love and care, which will be more valuable than a small surprise, a small gift.
2, do not easily doubt each other
Marriage is the most important thing is trust, trust is the foundation of marriage. Even if there is an extramarital affair in the marriage, the first thing to destroy is not the marriage, but the relationship of trust between the two people, suspicion and suspicion is the culprit that ultimately led to the disintegration of the marriage. Paranoid personality is a kind of pathological personality, this kind of person's marriage is often a failure, because he is always suspecting that his lover is not having an affair, is not plotting to harm themselves, etc., suspicion will ultimately be all the love is defeated. Since two people are together because they love each other, they should be convinced of each other's love for them. Doubting each other without any evidence can only show that one is no longer in love with TA.
3, learn to communicate
Communicating with each other is a key element in running a marriage. Don't hold back what you say in your stomach, communicate more with each other, and let each other know more about themselves, so you can avoid a lot of unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions. Communication is also very important to the marriage relationship, the good or bad of the marriage relationship is directly proportional to the good or bad communication. In our real life, we may often see is the husband and wife relationship emotional foundation is good, but in each other communication and exchange some problems, thus affecting each other's relationship. This shows that a good marriage requires good communication.
4, learn to create romance
Many introverts complain that they do not know how to be romantic, in fact, the character does not determine whether you are romantic or not, as long as you are a little bit with a little bit of heart, who can find romance. Learn to create romance, you can ask each other what things are romantic, and then create a little of such things can be. Sometimes it's not that we lack romance, it's that we lack the courage to be romantic. Whether it is after seven years, ten years, or twenty years, when the partner returns home, stop what you are doing, turn your attention to each other, give your lover a big hug, give love in the details, can make each other more intimate and warm; and in the usual way, often keep in touch with the body, such as patting the shoulder, touching the face and other small gestures, will be more than the couples life can promote intimacy.
5, learn to think differently
Self-centeredness is always the biggest obstacle in the relationship between husband and wife, including all the other relationships, it can be said that everyone is living in their own dominant world, to give the other side of their own think he wants rather than what he really wants is a very frugal approach. But frugal doesn't mean effective, and frugal often results in good intentions and bad behavior. Running a marriage requires that both people in the marriage step outside of their own world to think differently about what the other person really wants, and then give the other person what they want rather than what they think they want. Don't impose your own ideas on others in everything, and when it comes to problems, do a little more thinking differently, and think from the other person's point of view, so that you will get along better.