I talked to Mr. Yu and I realized that he was only 30 years old and single, is a small city out here to fight, because it will dance, in a dance studio as a dance teacher, usually free of charge to their elderly dance team to teach dance, which one after another, and the mother-in-law had feelings. Mr. Yu also told me that he knows that there is a big age gap between him and his mother-in-law, but he doesn't care and thinks it's not a problem.
It is also very disturbing to me that a guy with a 20-year age difference is looking for my mother-in-law. And I think that Mr. Yu is good looking and young, and there are many other options, it's so out of character to find a mother-in-law as a partner. Besides, what should I call him after their marriage? Since that incident, my mother-in-law did not hide her feelings, and often that Mr. Yu was often seen in pairs. My neighbors sometimes saw me and kindly reminded me that Mr. Yu's reputation was not very good, and that he liked to mingle with the grannies in the granny piles, and asked me to remind my mother-in-law not to associate with Mr. Yu. The whole family was strongly against this, but my husband was very supportive, so I didn't know what to do. I don't know what to do. Especially my sister-in-law, who called me every three days to tell me that I must stop my mother-in-law from marrying that man, and that I can't let that man into the house.
I told my husband about my worries, and I also told him that Mr. Yu's reputation is not very good, but to my surprise, but my husband felt that this is not a problem, but also firmly support my mother-in-law, saying that those who like to chew on the root of the tongue can't be fully believed, his mother worked hard for half of her life, and now she just wants to find a companion, I need to be so fussed about it? Moreover, our family has no money, the house is still the mother-in-law's money, what can be expected? The teacher, Mr. Yu, is young and has the energy to take care of his mother, and they want to live their own lives without us, so isn't that a good thing?
I as a daughter-in-law on the reasoning is not to stop your mother-in-law to pursue happiness, but if I let it go, I worry that my mother-in-law will be cheated, afraid of the man has other plans, more afraid that the man is just a moment of obsession, and will abandon your mother-in-law in the future, so that the situation makes it difficult for me left and right.