That is, the family has a very good and big business needs children to take over the management of the words. If the parents are still young and can manage, but also let the child go out for a few years, so that he has a long time to see, in the big enterprise to learn some management operation knowledge, and then manage their own family business is also beneficial.
Besides, the children are older, they have their own opinions and ideas, not parents say, most of the young people are willing to go out to venture, go out to exercise exercise is very good, parents will give the right to choose the rules to the children, so that they are in the right position to play smart, blossom brilliantly!
This is a case-by-case approach, if you have a strong family background, rich assets, good interpersonal relations, and a wide range of ways, you can consider letting your children stay with you. As the saying goes, the tiger pro brother, on the battlefield father and son soldiers. It is also a good choice to have a child accompany you around to practice, start a business, get a wife (marry) and have children. On the contrary, you are an ordinary family, or even penniless, the children are big, let them go to society to struggle, may win the life, mixed well, but also high officials to sit, horses to ride, when the time to return home, your face will be glittering.
Generally speaking, children are older, will have their own life choices, whether to stay in the homeland, or far away from home, parents are inconvenient to interfere, which is also "children can not be fathered" said the reason.
For this reason, let me say, the child is big, wings hard, he (she) want to fly on the fly.
This should be based on the actual, generally speaking, the city people, the child is older in the side of more, because the parents of the economic conditions, the child can also find a good job, stay in the city, the family reunion, each other and a care.
Rural people, most of them went out to venture, so it's good, like me, a person to come to Hancheng this 400 kilometers away from home, although a person in a different place to fight is also very hard, and no one to support their own efforts, rely on their own efforts, through the efforts of the past years, but also on the life of a house and a car, and also have children, small family life is a colorful.
Men's ambition in all directions, if there are conditions, I hope we can go outside to break into the world, to leave a good memory of their lives, the outside world is very wonderful, we need to go out to see, which requires courage.
My hometown in Qishan County, a village, where young people are now in the field to break into the field, one of the hometown on the employment opportunities, and the second is the hometown economy is still underdeveloped, go out and fight quite well.
There is an elementary school classmate, in Xi'an has been struggling, some time ago to know that is now a big hotel in Xi'an, a big boss, under the hands of a dozen employees, the cause of prosperity.
Most of the people who work outside the village are working in organizations, and our village is famous for the chief designer of the Shenzhou spacecraft, and the general manager of the Caijiapo development company.
Now it's all the same, the aging of the countryside is serious, and young people have to go to the field in order to survive, which is also a way to break through.
Young people, cheer up, no matter how big the storm outside? No matter what difficulties you face? Don't bow down, don't retreat, go forward and be a man of action.
It's always good to get out there, and maybe you're a little anxious about it!
Friends if your family conditions are not enough, you press the idea is not to stay around. Either that or you are in a city where the conditions are such that you can keep your child with you and that's what's giving you the idea.
If neither of these is the case, then it is you and your child who are so attached that you can't bear to let your child leave your side, and that is why this anxiety arises. This kind of anxiety, the general parents will have, and think of the child to go out to exercise their own, and think of the child to stay around, afraid of the child is not in their own side, to cause any trouble, always feel that the child is not in their own eyes, will not be in the heart of the matter, often is this kind of emotion will make themselves very crazy.
Children grow up, always have to go out, go out after the social beatings, to put it nicely called baptism, the child will be different, no matter to the people alive to things. So I think there are no certain conditions, or let the child to go out to explore. You can also find other leisure projects, such as going out to dance, and similar age to play mahjong, learn to play chess, in short, distract the child is not around you on the good.
Of course, we should let him go out to experience, to break through, the results are not important, go and see, look at this society, enrich the experience of life, the world is not reckless to come this time. Life is a practice.