In a woman's marriage, mother-in-law is a role that can not be ignored, and mother-in-law get along well, is equivalent to more than one love your mom, and mother-in-law get along well, is equivalent to set up an enemy. To master the way to get along with the mother-in-law, so that the mother-in-law turned into a pro-mother.
One, start from yourself, change the concept, psychologically accept your mother-in-law. "To harvest the heart, first of all to pay the heart" to mother-in-law to you, first of all you can not be influenced by the outside world thought, think mother-in-law must be bad, to always be ready to fight with mother-in-law. You have to treat your mother-in-law as an elder to respect, as a loved one to care for, "reach out and do not hit the smiling face of the people," even if your mother-in-law's temper is bad, you and treat her well, respect her, care for her, she is embarrassed to overly harsh treatment of you.
Second, the material expression of goodwill, mother-in-law heart. "Say good as well as do good" in the mind to accept the mother-in-law, to be more concerned about the mother-in-law's food and clothing, such as festivals to go to the mother-in-law to buy some gifts or good food; from time to time to care for the mother-in-law have no want to buy things, want to eat things; cold days to remind the mother-in-law to pay attention to the body of the more clothes; mother-in-law to do chores to take the initiative to help. You do little by little, mother-in-law to see in the eyes and remember in the heart, you have the "water dripping stone" perseverance, mother-in-law will be touched by you.
Three, in front of your mother-in-law, do not just tell your husband to do things. The son is the mother-in-law's heart treasure, in front of the mother-in-law do not frequently instruct his son to do things, to respect the husband, more love for the husband. Doing so will leave a good impression on your mother-in-law and make it easy for you to get along with her. Husband is an effective medium to regulate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you can let your husband in front of your mother-in-law more for you to praise, of course, you want your husband to pay attention to, for you to praise your mother-in-law before, so as to avoid mother-in-law jealous, counterproductive.
Lastly, and mother-in-law to get along with us to have the grace to tolerate people, "people are not sages who can not fault," when her mother-in-law made a mistake, we have to use the heart of tolerance to treat the older people, always like to nag a few words, and even a little nagging, when her mother-in-law nagging, you do not take it to heart, if her mother-in-law said the hard to hear, you just when you can't hear it. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that your mother-in-law has a good understanding of the situation. "The first thing you need to do is to get a hold of your mother-in-law and get along with her, so that you can get along with her.