People often use the phrase "the roots of the old are strong, the sun is proud of the leaves is more Yin" to describe the old and strong, but in modern society, once people get older, they want to be able to enjoy their old age peacefully and comfortably, and don't want to experience the excitement and adventure.
But a grandmother who is close to 60 years of age has done the opposite, making the jaw-dropping decision to procreate in her flowery years, and this life has turned out to be the birth of twins.
The ordinary two gave birth to their only daughter, but an accident happened and the daughter died
As the saying goes, a child is the best gift from heaven to the parents, and in Sheng Hailin's family, this saying is equally true. 1980, the young and beautiful she and her husband gave birth to a baby girl, and the whole family was immersed in a joyful and peaceful atmosphere.
Sheng Hailin, a doctor, grew up with a dream of saving lives and becoming a white angel. Under the careful care of her parents and good education at school, she came to work at her ideal hospital as she had always wanted to.
To their own years, Sheng Hailin in the side of colleagues and friends of the introduction of the current husband, he is honest and loyal, although not good at talking, but the Sheng Hailin hundred of care, so the two soon entered the marriage hall.
Not long after, the young couple harvested the crystallization of their love, the birth of the daughter to the family brought vitality and a different feeling, Sheng Hailin to their best are left to the daughter, but also their focus from work to the family, the daughter in the couple's careful cultivation, thrive.
But the seemingly happy family suffered a bolt from the blue in the following days.
One time during the Spring Festival, the family reunited for New Year's Eve dinner. But it was this dinner that took the life of their young daughter.
There were too many people in the house, and every adult had a job at hand, so there was no one to look after the child, and so the daughter was taken to the hospital for gas poisoning in the kitchen, but death didn't spare her, and the child eventually passed away.
Being a doctor, Sheng Hailin was devastated that her daughter passed away so quietly in her prime, which was so wrong, and the couple had only one only daughter and did not intend to have a second child, and the daughter had an extraordinary status for the whole family.
The reality of the situation is too cruel, so the tragedy of the white hair to send the black hair again. No children for the couple with traditional conservative concepts, not only to the family and elders of a performance of filial piety, but also so that the two old people will soon run six difficult to accept.
At the age of 60, Sheng Hailin decided to have another baby, becoming China's oldest woman to give birth
In this case, Sheng Hailin had no idea what to do every day and could not sleep or eat well, and after many days and nights of deliberation, she made one of the boldest decisions of her life -- to have another baby.
This kind of thing is almost impossible in the eyes of ordinary people, why would it come out of a doctor's mouth? Anyone who knows anything about medicine knows that once a woman is over 35 and gives birth, she is already considered an advanced mother, and getting pregnant past 40 can be potentially dangerous for her body.
Sheng Hailin will soon be 60 years old, an age when it is no longer possible to have children through normal means, and the risk rate is extremely high if you go through artificial insemination.
When neighbors heard of her decision, they urged her that it would not be worth the risk if something happened on the operating table. But Sheng Hailin did not obey everyone's opinion, as a doctor, she knew that if a little accident may not be able to save his life, but she did not want to give up this opportunity.
Once a person decides something, he or she needs to follow his or her heart, and can't be swayed by the words of others, can he or she?
After the family's unremitting efforts, they finally found a hospital willing to deliver her twins, and in May 2010, one year after her daughter's death, a pair of twins were born through the advanced reproductive technology of "in vitro fertilization," and Mr. and Mrs. Sheng Hailin welcomed the second spring of their small family as they approached 60 years old.
Sheng Hailin and his wife are approaching their 60th birthday and are now enjoying their second spring.
The couple was overjoyed, and when the folks heard the good news, they came out to congratulate the couple on what was a miracle in the history of medicine, making Sheng Hailin China's oldest woman to have given birth. In addition to the joy and celebration, the pressure was also present, the family had already spent all their savings when they gave birth to the twins. Yet raising the two children and putting them through school was another significant expense.
The twins' daily expenses are huge, and Sheng Hailin is working hard to earn money
The couple knows that they are getting old, and that both of them may die before the children grow up, so what will happen to the children? The company's website is a great place to find out more about the company's services.
These are all questions. Now Sheng Hailin, thinking of desperately trying to make money, 60 years old, most of the elderly have been at home in their twilight years, nothing to do with square dancing, but she can not, the old man in a car accident, resulting in paralysis of the lower half of the body, which all of a sudden the burden of life, all the burden of the Sheng Hailin a person's body.
She often arrives home tired and goes to bed, and for a 60-year-old, the daily overload is really too difficult.
In an interview, she told reporters that she was quite sorry for her two daughters, because she was too busy at work and rarely had time to be with her children, so she sent them to a boarding school, where they ate meals and stayed at the school, and only came back on weekends.
These more than 10 years, Sheng Hailin suffered the crime, suffered, and only they know, they know, she often said that they have to persevere, or the family will be finished.
An elderly woman can hold on to her dreams, but she also has to consider the dangers of the consequences
Some of the elderly and Sheng Hailin have the same experience, are old and lost their children, and after they heard about this elderly woman's story, they all ran over to her to learn from her.
And Sheng Hailin advised them to think carefully, one of which is that raising a child is always more difficult than giving birth to one, and after the child is born, it will take a lot of time and energy to nurture it, and to ensure that they have enough money to pay for the rest of the life of all kinds of expenses.
The second is the danger of giving birth at an advanced age. Sheng Hailin was one of the lucky ones who didn't have to deal with a hemorrhage or other emergencies during the birth, but in another case, the risk would still be there, and there's a good chance that the mother would die on the operating table before the baby was born.
In addition, the sequelae left behind by the advanced maternal age, but also can not be ignored, because the age of the body's various tissues and organs have been degraded and atrophy, can not withstand the toss, if at this time to go to birth, is tantamount to bring serious harm to the body, so that after giving birth to a number of diseases may also come with.
Even if the body does not have any disease, the physique will be much worse, which is also the real portrayal of Sheng Hailin's old age.
But she has no regrets, right or wrong, it is her own decision. In fact, young people should have this kind of bold thinking, dare to think and fight, do not worry about failure, the heart as long as to adhere to their own initial dream, do not ask the consequences, but line always.