For many people, feelings are very important. The way you speak is also important. We usually treat strangers outside with courtesy. It is precisely because of our character and upbringing that we attach great importance to politeness. But when we are in a bad mood or want to lose our temper. I often say harsh words to the people closest to me. As the saying goes, bad words hurt people in June, which is very unfair to people around us. And what I say is like splashing water, like a sharp knife stuck in the other person's heart. We will regret it afterwards, but what we said can't be taken back. Therefore, the reason why we say the harshest words to the people we love most is because we are relaxed with the people we love most, so we often say something without thinking, which is actually very hurtful.
In fact, in our life, we should not only be polite to strangers, but also pay attention to people close to us. Before you speak, you must consider the consequences, and at the same time, you should also consider whether you should say this sentence. This is the consciousness that an adult should have. It's best not to say cruel words, because after all, such words will only hurt others. Therefore, the reason why we say the harshest words to the people we love most is actually because we know each other very well, so we know how to open our mouths to make each other sad. What we say when we are angry is also easy to offend others, so we always say the hardest things to the people we love the most.
To sum up, the reason why we say the harshest words to the people we love most is because we know each other too well, so we often forget to think when we speak. We should all face this, change what we have and encourage what we don't have, because what we say can't be taken back, so we must be careful what we say and do.