1, self-doubt method
Relatives: Why haven't you found someone yet?
Me: Really, why don't I find someone? You can pretend to answer the phone and stay away from the wrong place as soon as possible when you find that your relatives and friends want to push for marriage. In addition, you can take out your computer and pretend to work, so that others won't bother you.
2. Self-pity method
Relatives: Why haven't you found someone yet?
Me: I want to find it, but the object doesn't find me. Many parents whose children are working hard outside have also been to places where their children are working hard. I deeply know that it is difficult for their children to work hard outside. Usually, they are too tired to go home from work. How can they have time to fall in love? Even if you have time to fall in love, where can you find a lover?
3. Sacrifice yourself for others.
Relatives: Why haven't you found someone yet?
Me: Shall I give you a happy wedding? The purpose of relatives (especially strangers) urging marriage is not to really care about you, but to satisfy their burning curiosity about gossip.
4. New Year's Day Law
Relatives: Why haven't you found someone yet?
Me: Don't mention this in the Spring Festival. Proper affection can not only reduce the number of parents urging marriage, but also promote family care and harmony. .......
5. Appreciate the plum blossom and peach blossom.
Relatives: Why haven't you found someone yet?
Me: How are your children's grades? Always pay attention to throwing sensitive topics such as square dance, pension, work and mortgage to each other in order to take the initiative in the anti-marriage struggle.
6. Learn from the past.
Relatives: Why haven't you found someone yet?
Me: I want to choose slowly. Your mother said you were just in a hurry.
When relatives and friends keep urging you to get married, you can try to change the subject and divert their attention from you. For a simple example, when everyone is urging you to get married, you can suddenly throw out a new topic, such as whose daughter-in-law ran away with whom.
7. Sliding kneeling method
Relatives: Why haven't you found someone yet?
Me: Please stop. When others say you are not, you can say: No way. When others continue to teach you to be a man, you can say: what you said is very reasonable.
8. Laws against women
Relatives: Why haven't you found someone yet?
Me: I am an independent woman? In the face of relatives and friends urging marriage, we can use these witty ways to deal with it, knowing that this is not a long-term solution. If you really have no plans to get married, you might as well make it clear to everyone.
9. Feudal superstition law
Relatives: Why haven't you found someone yet?
Me: The fortune teller said that getting married before the age of 30 is not good for me. Rural people are superstitious, so they will basically not continue to struggle.
10, turned a deaf ear to the law
Relatives: Why haven't you found someone yet?
Me: What do you think of Xx? When relatives ask you questions about marriage, it doesn't matter what their questions are. As long as you talk to men about the international situation and talk to women about health care and financial management, you will be able to save the day! Arguing with them properly on these issues and arousing their desire for victory and defeat can perfectly achieve the effect of putting an end to urging marriage and exercising eloquence.