Women are for love
This question is asked, of course, women are used to spoil, if roar can roar to daughter-in-law, then there will be no single man in the world. No matter how strong the woman, also like the man who is good to her. Favoring women is not a thing to be ashamed of, but how much you love her, how much favor will be in it.
We've heard that whoever's boyfriend is especially good to her, listens to her in everything, spoils her and spoils her. But when you hear who who's husband to daughter-in-law is not good at all, not hit both scolding, such a man is not admired, more is accused.
Many times men's machismo, will harm themselves. Feel that everything has to listen to him, no matter where the woman is high and mighty, thinking that he is very dignified, thinking that this woman is very afraid of her. If the woman did not refute, if in accordance with your ideas to do, this is not a woman more afraid of you, just to give you face, just she loves you.
If cursing can solve the problem, then the world does not need the law, who which won count who won, that may be! So don't turn your unqualified into a tool for cursing, don't take others' silence as weakness. Some women just don't want to generalize with the dog, some directly away from you.
A woman is more and more gentle, indicating that the one who loves her spoiled her into a child. A woman is getting stronger and stronger, indicating that the man who did not get the love of the man, forced himself into a female sweatshop.
So the man's pain and favor is very important, a relationship, he spoiled you is love, in love, he gave you pain is the love of the degree of commitment. And then the temper of the key moment to hold back, and then want to scold, but also to distinguish between light and heavy exports. This is not just for women, but also for society and friends.
When a woman chooses a love partner, she is not only looking at the appearance and conditions, but also the inner quality of a person.
Women must be bright eyes, everywhere you rely on you spoiled you that person, love is never humble, but he knows how to cherish know how to take care of you. That you point at you everywhere dislike you, only in the squandering of your feelings, only did not put you in the heart.
Born a woman, of course, is used to spoil, who said that the woman is used to scold, Mrs. Miss the mother of the great power, the group attacked, you are to hide into the eighteen layers of hell, but also can not escape Mrs. Miss of the exhaustive pursuit of beatings.
The biggest advantage of the woman is that she is a woman, as a woman's advantage is favored everywhere, at home, parents spoiled, married her husband spoiled, even her husband's parents have to follow the spoiled, and if the husband fell out, immediately there are outsiders spoiled, no one really spoiled, but also can pretend to be a poor face, thought he was weak, and people will tell their own bitter life, in this way, it is the own spoiled their own is also not too much.
But the woman in the situation of being spoiled, that they are really a treasure, spoiled and spoiled will forget that they have a few pounds, a little less than desired, will be discarded as a woman's watery tenderness, followed by the image of the night fork to show that she is the mother of might, no wonder there is an image of the metaphor: a tigress.
The woman is used to spoil, it is true, but everything has to have a degree, if you have to one to two, hard to climb to the head of others, it is only spat on by people drowned in saliva.
Women are not used to spoil, more not used to scold, is used to love!
The people who spoil you will eventually spoil you, forget the original, but will not take men seriously! Moreover, spoiled out of a bad habit, no one will tolerate you anymore!
The people who scold you will scold you to run, hurt the heart, absolute love, your self-esteem and self-confidence destroyed, so that you feel the world of ruthlessness and indifference!
Only love, a lifetime of cling film, sweet sauce!
Men spoil you because they like you, look pretty will be pampered, speak to the voice than honey sweet. Plus the first love to please you, he is a slave you are the general.
Why should a man scold you for thinking about playing and eating every day. Also like to specialize in eating barbecue spicy hot. Eat more than face long red beans, so ugly! I don't want to scold you, I have to say you.
Look at what you ate, how exciting!
I'm the real king, I'll answer.
Yesterday I passed by the door of a kindergarten, just met the children after school, so I saw the mother is training children.
The mom said, "I told you to be disobedient and was punished by the teacher again. How can you be so unprotected ah, I'm at home to you and your father to do cattle and horses, completely you two masters to serve as if serving, the results of a quarrel with me, a class inattentive, are to punish me, see how I go home to clean you.
The child tried to pull his mother's hand, and kept saying, "Mom, I'm wrong, I won't dare to do it again. But the mother was scolding him the whole time, and didn't give him a chance to admit his mistake.
I heard one of the parents say, "Actually, if you look at how her husband treats her, you'll know why she's become so fierce.
I heard clearly, the original mother once did not marry before very understanding, gentle and generous, at that time everyone praised the girl good nature.
But since she got married and had a baby, she had no one to help her with the baby, so she quit her high-paying, stable job and stayed at home to be a housewife.
At first, his husband was very good to her, but after a long time, his husband was all kinds of dislike her, saying that her cooking is not good, the floor mopping is not clean enough, and the child cried and he blamed her for not teaching.
He is only responsible for going to work every day, the rest of all the housework inside and outside to be worried by her, he even came home to see her busy busy, and will not help her clean up the kitchen, hold a child, or wash the dishes once. And long-term soak in the smell of oil and trivial things in the woman, will inevitably look much older, this time the husband not only do not understand the heartache of her, but also often scolded her is a yellow face.
In the husband's mind, he is responsible for making money to support the family is the main force of the family, so there is a kind of condescending feeling towards his wife.
Lin Yutang once said: "Women are water, into the wine is wine, into the vinegar is vinegar". The first thing you need to do is to look at your husband and see what kind of woman he is.
In fact, good women are spoiled. You love her love her care for her, she is gentle like water; you blame her complain about her cold, she is as hard as ice. You complain about her accusations, she is full of hostility. Especially married women, more so.
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When my cousin and his aunt got married, everyone was not optimistic about their marriage, and the cousin's character was not good, grumpy, and he insisted on marrying her.
When he got married, many relatives and friends said to him, there will be you suffer. But the strange thing is that after the two married, the small life is unusually sweet, the most important thing is that once the hustle and bustle, brutal and unreasonable cousin aunt actually became gentle and virtuous, the heart is wider, people more beautiful.
In fact, all these changes are thanks to the cousin uncle.
I remember one time when my aunt went home and lost her temper, saying that the daughter-in-law of the next family, Wang, was badmouthing her behind her back, and that she thought she was fat, had no taste in clothes, and couldn't even cook well. She was going to go to Wang's daughter-in-law for a theory, but her uncle said to her, "I like you fat, you have no taste in clothes, so I will work hard to earn money to buy more clothes for you, and I will cook if you don't know how to cook. So to this later cousin aunt became confident, other people chew on her, she is not too petty.
There is also a time when she was seriously ill in the hospital for a few months, and eat, drink, and then have to wait for people, then the cousin uncle not only to work every day, but also day and night to take care of her, but she is a patient but unreasonable, often hair anonymous fire, one said that the cousin uncle is wanting to divorce her, but also denigrate the cousin uncle want to play her this drag bottle.
But even in the heart of the time, cousin uncle is not with her quarrel with her, but is more and more good to her, everything let her, but also said to her, no matter what you become, I can not possibly no matter what you, you will always be my wife.
Originally full of resentment of the cousin aunt, suddenly realized that he was wrong, there is such a good husband, is not worth it? To that time after the illness, she is like a changed person, slowly become gentle.
Some people have said that to marry a man is to marry a way of life, but also to marry a temperament, a heart, a mind.
In fact, women have catlike thinking, you are good to her, she will be happy, you are poor, she is cold and lonely. You spoil her, love her, her heart has a sense of security, there is the bottom line, and no longer suffer, no longer catty, no longer sensitive gas.
03
Not long ago, I saw Liu on the street, today's Liu, full of spring, see who are a happy look, which can make me somewhat surprised. Because of the previous sister Liu, but a all day face, do not smile, who are fierce people.
Later, I heard people say, Liu sister so much change because her second husband to her spoiled like a daughter in general, they say that the woman as water, was nourished by the love of women, naturally, there is a more gentle temperament.
Sister Liu's first husband, there is a serious macho everything he said, once contrary to his will, he has to work against her, and never in words and actions to let you. Every time the two are in conflict, it is necessary to rely on both parents to coordinate to continue to live.
But with her second husband together, no matter who's right or wrong, he is the first to admit defeat, he said home is to talk about the place of love, not reasoning place, wife is used to love, not used to quarrel. So even if they have a big contradiction, they can be within 2 days of the ice.
Ms. Liu's first husband, she was very mean to her, refused to spend money for her, and always suspected her of spending money. The family no matter what to buy things, he asked for equal share, everything counted especially shrewd.
But Liu's second husband, the two married, he bought his own house added Liu's name, will put their own payroll card to Liu, as long as she likes things, even if a little more expensive, but also willing to give her to buy.
Sister Liu with the first husband together, always love to be angry, to whom all a rush of temper, because she is at home, her husband has not been her good face, so her face is never pitch-black. But with the second husband together, she became open, become generous not catty, unlike once others with her a joke, she has to turn the other cheek.
In fact, the woman's heart is particularly easy to be sensitized, the man if she is and wind and rain, she will be gentle as water, if the man is not good temperament to her, she must be open teeth and claws.
A man who cares, with care, with the heart of a woman, such a woman will become softer, more charming, more understanding.
But if a man, always with indifference, scolding, contempt for women, they will become more hard, more ruthless, more unreasonable.
04
It has been said that men are to be worshipped, but women must be pampered. Men in the relationship to be a kind of respect, but women want only love, only love, can nourish a woman.
To pamper women, we have to mention the couple Chilam Cheung and Anita Yuen.
The two of them are well-known in the entertainment circle love couple, no matter what place, Chilam's hand is holding Yuan Yongyi did not let go.
A reporter asked him, "Why do you like to hold Anita Yuen's hand so much?" He replied jokingly, "I don't know why I like to hold Anita Yuen's hand. He jokingly replied, "Because I'm afraid that if I let go of her hand she'll go shopping for a bag!"
On one occasion when Chilam and Anita Yuen were being interviewed, the reporter asked Chilam, "How many Hermes have you bought for Anita Yuen do you remember?" Zhang Chilam said: "Do not remember, count not clear, home her bag is too much."
The reporter asked Gloria Yuen: "Will it hurt when you swipe your card to buy a bag?" Yuan replied with a big smile, "I buy bags are brush my husband's card."
"No, I don't reason with her, reason and her, I choose her. And women well, spoiled on the line."
In fact, a good woman around are almost always spoiled by a good man, in fact, spoiled his wife's man is really smart, because she is your old companion, but also will be your children's mother, but also your parents daughter-in-law, a wife decides the degree of happiness of a family, and if a man knows how to pamper his wife, it will be a more relaxing and harmonious days.
A good woman is never spoiled out, will not be complaining, be cold, be disliked out.
Man or woman, either spoiled not scolded
Spoiled to avoid excessive, scolded, never.
This depends on ah, of course, good women to spoil, bad women are not necessary