"In the middle of the night, I ran into my husband on the toilet, I sobbed": derailment is not scary, poor is scary recently a reader message, her husband recently came back late every day, intuition told her what happened. At 1 o'clock in the middle of the night, she heard a noise in the toilet and ran over to see him with red eyes. She realized that recently he had been taking private jobs to make money, and this time he was in the toilet to contact the work. She was saddened to learn that.
The adult world is difficult for everyone, and most of the suffering in life is related to lack of money. Nearly there is a Japanese national goddess Sasaki Xi was cleaved, her husband and more than 200 women have incestuous relations, but the goddess chose to forgive, and hope that her husband returned to the family ...... Husband in the last month night always come back late, every day to me to reply to the message is also very slow, every day at home has become less talkative, once upon a time I did not notice, until these two days, he always after I fell asleep, quietly get up to go to the living room.
A woman's intuition told me there must be something. Around 2:00 a.m., my husband once again quietly went to the living room, I continued to pretend to be asleep, and not long after, I heard the sound of the toilet flushing. Instead of my own daily ruminations, I got up and went to the living room to look for him earlier to find out.
He had just come out of the restroom and saw me, and was startled, literally jumped, and his body twitched. Before he could say anything, I asked him if he was hiding something from me? He kept his mouth shut and said it was nothing. If there is nothing wrong, so cover up what to do, I have been and he splashed, this time the husband suddenly opened his mouth and said:
Wife, there is nothing, is that I temporarily... Unemployed ...... Take this time in the evening to look at job sites. Want to wait to find a job and then tell you, afraid you worry. He made a mistake like the tone of voice, so that I froze there at once, and my heart hurt as if it had been seized. He is doing online dating these days, and comes back so late every day because there is no traffic at night, so that he can run a few more orders. Suddenly I saw that my husband had gray hairs on his head, and I didn't hold back and cried straight away.
He has paid a lot for this family, and the family's monthly mortgage is 4500, the car loan is more than 2000, the child's tuition fees for a semester will be nearly 10,000, and the mother-in-law's health has not been very good, and every day you have to take medication. The small amount of money I earn is nothing compared to what my husband earns.
In these years together, the husband he seldom put the vulnerable side of the show, he can do in this home alone, but now this time, I not only did not understand him, but also some unreasonable, really feel that he is the family of a sinner.
I comforted her for a long time, and then sent her over a sentence: hold on a little longer, the sky will always be bright. The last sentence became her WeChat signature. Everyone says that after 30, the sweet and sour are gone, and only the bitter and spicy are left. But don't be afraid. The lesson of life, we are all beginners.
1 "Things are not what you wish for, is the norm in life" San Mao once said: "God does not give me, no matter how tightly I clasp my fingers, still leakage. Give me, no matter how I missed in the past, will have." Therefore, do not deliberately count the gains and losses, everything God has its own arrangements, what can be done at the moment is to be a happy ordinary people, is already life extra compensation.
What you want, most of them will deviate; what you y expect, most of them are bad news first; what you hold on to, most of them will lose faster. No need to dwell on fair or not, love and not, things are not what you want is the norm in life. Maybe, the expectation of the failure has its own arrangement. Please believe that everything in the world is constant, as long as the result is good, the previous ups and downs are worth it.
2 "The adult world,? There is no word 'give up'" "If I'm unhappy, can I say so?" "If you're a child, yes." "What if you're not a kid?" "I'll always go through ......"
In the world of adults, the word "quite" carries with it the power to pull people back to the ground time and time again when they are in a deep ditch. A hundred people will have a hundred kinds of life, mixed flavors, sadness and happiness. When we see people who are having a harder time than we are still holding on, it seems that we have no choice but to do what we have to do. There is a saying that even if life is hopeless, the struggle itself is a kind of hope.
If the chair amount of effort did not change into the desired results, do not worry, and then support a little bit, the hard life, who do not fall behind. Bad luck are used to manage, after all are good days.
3 "gain and loss if it is inevitable, the original we have not suffered in vain" Japanese drama "leisurely vacation":
"Life is not as good as it should be, is a long vacation given by God, to enjoy this vacation. Suddenly one day the vacation ends and the time comes when life really begins." If things don't turn out the way you want them to be is the norm in life, then unexpected surprises are a gift from God. Listen as I tell you the follow up to the story above.
The friend who wrote the previous article later left a comment saying that her husband had found a new job and that his salary was much higher than before, and that he could earn more overtime pay if he worked more shifts. Now her avatar has been changed to a photo of a family of three, and everyone in the photo is smiling happily. The softness and small fortune outside of life is that the family is peaceful and tidy.
So there is no need to panic, when you lose something, God will surely let it return in another way. No matter what it is in the end it must be a good ending, if not, then it means it's not the end yet. There is a line in the movie "Under the Tuscan Sun" that says, without a doubt, good things always come. And when it comes late, it's no less surprising. Life is a process of cultivation, you always have to have seen great joy and sorrow, tasted the sweet and sour, so as not to be in vain to walk on earth. No need to complain, this is the practice of our life. So what if it's bitter?
You gave me suffering, I finished the pass. There is no need to thank the suffering, please thank yourself well, touch your head, all the way through, really hard work. I hope that years later, remembering these little things, we can all smile and answer, "At the end of the long day, I stand before you, you will see my wounds, and know that I have been wounded and healed."