"The young couple is old enough to be with each other, and they do not get tired of looking at each other hand in hand". Throughout the years, they hold each other's hands, and ultimately find the true meaning of love. However, it is also said that even the most loving couples, there may have been more than one idea of divorce. Life is not a fairy tale, and there are bound to be bumps and bruises, but because of this, the love that persists in this way is worth cherishing and respecting. Today, let's take a look at how older couples get along through stories and surveys.
As the saying goes, the old man has something to fall back on, when one reaches old age, there is an old companion
with him, there is a dependence on life, and there is also a psychological support. Old couples entering their old age, they get along well? The following is the experience of an old couple, perhaps it will give you some food for thought.
Happiness is a home-cooked meal eaten together to taste
January 21 at noon, 68-year-old Du Zhongling aunt busy morning, finally returned home. Because Hefei to create a national civilized city, Du aunt voluntarily as a patrol to maintain road order. "Old man, I'm back." Just arrived home, Du Auntie saw 71-year-old companion has put the meal on the table, the old couple cheerfully open to eat up, "I ran outside in the morning, he was busy at home, he is my backup." Auntie Du's words were full of happiness.
Both brothers had their eyes on her back then
"Old man, when did we get married?" When the reporter asked Auntie Du about her wedding anniversary, she was still a bit unable to remember for a while, so she had to turn to her old partner for help. "We were married on April 28, 1968." The old companion quickly reported it, remembering it clearly.
Du Auntie told reporters that there is another interesting story about the marriage. Back then, Auntie Du and her mother-in-law worked in a factory, her mother-in-law fell in love with Auntie Du at first sight, she felt that she was beautiful and would do things, she wanted to introduce her to her second son, which is Auntie Du's current partner, I did not expect that a colleague in the factory wanted to introduce her to another young man, and that young man turned out to be the younger brother of Auntie Du's old partner. "At that time, I still had my eyes on my old partner, so I let my parents step in and back off my little uncle." Speaking of this past, Auntie Du is also happy.
Each has their own hobbies life is very full
"In fact, when we were young, we also quarrel, are for the children's things, such as a hit the child, a protection, there is always a contradiction, but now the children have been working, we do not have to bother." Auntie Du said she also slowly realized that she and her partner are more in love. "When I coughed a while ago, he brought water to me. Sometimes when he's sick, I try to do everything I can to help him relieve (the pain)." Today, the elderly couple are both in good health and have their own hobbies, which make their lives, already in their old age, very fulfilling. "When I was young, he let me learn to dance for exercise, and now I do square dancing and ballroom dancing." While Auntie Du's old partner likes to fish, followed by a group of fishing enthusiasts ran all over the size of the ponds in Hefei, "In the spring, he fished for four or five pounds of fish back to me, wild fish taste are particularly good."
Happiness is a plate of green peppers fried dry seeds
Review of their own happy life, Du Auntie or will it "attributed" to the good character of his partner, "I sometimes smacked him to buy things are not good, but also temper outbreaks, a burst of yelling, he did not say anything, wait for me to pass the temper, and then he came to explain. to explain, so we still communicate quite well."
What does happiness really feel like? Auntie Du said, just like the old partner to do a dish of green pepper fried dry son, simple, appetizing, with rice eat up especially fragrant. What is the happiest moment? Auntie Du said, in her opinion, is the two people busy with their own things, sitting together to eat a home-cooked meal, talking about home-cooked things. "This is the feeling of being with each other, right?"