Love often occurs in a moment, the feeling comes, on the eye, in love, not so much why. And do not love a person is a little bit of accumulation.
Like Wu Ting, Wu Ting and I are the same Sichuan people. Height 165, looks especially beautiful, is considered a goddess level. People gentle and generous, virtuous and beautiful, is a lot of people's dream lover.
More than two years ago, Wu Ting got married, the object is a pilot Zhao Yu, taller than a meter, especially handsome, I heard that there is a captain. This is not the legendary domineering president level of male god.
Zhao Yu is also a northern pure man, character a little macho, and Wu Ting is a typical southern girl, just like brother-in-law this point.
I was there when they got married, just graduated from senior high school at that time, and their wedding was very gorgeous, when Wu Ting in a white wedding dress and Zhao Yu in a suit walked down the aisle together, the whole audience cheered.
All around the envious gazes, guests said Wu Ting and Zhao Yu is they have seen the most match, the most on the right couple, and indeed also on the red carpet of their beautiful like a fairy tale came out of the princess and the prince. And the temperament and looks of the two are no less than the stars.
Before exchanging rings at the wedding, Zhao Yu also said a deep confession to Wu Ting, Zhao Yu's voice full of magnetic and with a strong northern accent, touched everyone present.
Everyone cried, I also cried, was Zhao Yu's true feelings moved to cry. Many married people said that Zhao Yu and Wu Ting made them believe in love again, and I just became an adult and thought that the so-called best love in the world is probably like this.
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After their marriage, the two moved to Shenzhen and bought a house there. Everyone thought they would be happy for the rest of their lives, but they were not.
Half a year after the wedding, Zhao Yu's parents moved in with Wu Ting and his family. During that time, his father-in-law and mother-in-law were not well, plus the two old people could not adapt to the life in Shenzhen, so they needed someone to take care of them. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said.
The life of Wu Ting, who resigned from her job, was reduced to buying food, cooking, cleaning, and washing clothes for the whole family. Often accompany the in-laws to the hospital to see the doctor, and after dinner to accompany them to stroll in the park. Occasionally you have to accompany your mother-in-law to the square to dance.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China has always been a big problem that is difficult to solve, and Wu Ting is no exception.
In the beginning, Wu Ting and her mother-in-law got along very well, but as time passed, her mother-in-law had a problem with Wu Ting, thinking that her cooking was difficult to eat and her laundry was not clean.
Even when Wu Ting went out to make up and wear what she wore, she was criticized by her mother-in-law, who said that she did not go to work, and that she had to dress up to show who she wanted to see.
It seems that no matter what Wu Ting does, she can't get her mother-in-law's satisfaction, and even in front of her relatives, her mother-in-law is not shy about saying bad things about her, saying that she's lazy, saying that she's a big girl.
The kind of day to draw a delicate makeup, wear high heels on time to and from work, the evening occasionally drink friends get together for a meal, the weekend and colleagues shopping a life away from Wu Ting has been far away.
Wu Ting even misses the life of her coworkers working overtime until the early hours of the morning, and even on weekends there was no time off, because that's the kind of life a young person should have.
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Wu Ting secretly shed a lot of tears, but Zhao Yu did not know, she also tried to bring up, but each time in exchange for just Zhao Yu's perfunctory work.
Zhao Yu said, the old man is old, let Wu Ting more let her a little.
Wu Ting can only continue to tolerate, but patience and how, Wu Ting still can not let her mother-in-law satisfied, in exchange for even her mother-in-law's intensified.
Wu Ting does not want to be in the age of career but only at home to do housework, and do not want to be used to realize the self-worth of the energy spent on dealing with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, and do not want to be in the age of the should be put on make-up and vigorously to go to work, but can only be face to face in the home as a yellow face.
Wu Ting really can't stand it anymore and Zhao Yu put forward the request to go to work, Zhao Yu still does not agree, to this moment he can't understand Wu Ting in the family's situation is very difficult, and how much she wants to go back to work.
Zhao Yu just said that the old man is old, should be more tolerant tolerance, the work of the matter can be mentioned later, anyway, after the time is still long. And the two old people at home really need someone to take care of, cousin to go to work still have to hire a nanny, not to mention Wu Ting's salary is not high.
Wu Ting profoundly feel despair, the original value of their own home is just a nanny, and in the heart of Zhao Yu money is more important than their own career, their own ideals.
Wu Ting's attitude is very determined, on the spot and Zhao Yu big fight, in-laws heard the commotion went over to scold Wu Ting, said she does not understand, Zhao Yu every day to work so hard to earn money to support the family, she does not know considerate.
And when her mother-in-law realized that Wu Ting wanted to continue to work, she scolded her cousin for being heartless.
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After that fight Wu Ting and Zhao Yu had a cold war for a long time, and Wu Ting lived an unhappy life every day.
Wu Ting, who is supposed to be working hard in the workplace, has become a woman of deep resentment, and is clearly in her twenties, but she is living like a woman in her forties.
Wu Ting then asked Zhao Yu to go to work again, but every time in the form of a fight to end. And not surprisingly, every time the two people quarrel, the mother-in-law to come over to help, even if Wu Ting for the family to pay more, in the eyes of the mother-in-law she is just an outsider, can never be integrated into that family.
Gradually the number of quarrels between the two people is more and more, and about going to work this thing seems to be a mine point between the two people, as long as a touch will explode, leaving just a body hurt.
On the day of Valentine's Day, Wu Ting suddenly remembered that since the marriage of the two people do not seem to have a good Valentine's Day. Wu Ting would like to call and ask Zhao Yu when to go home, go home early if the two can go out to see a movie, Valentine's Day.
But before Wu Ting could finish her sentence, she was shouted at by Zhao Yu, who said, "I'm tired of going to work every day, so don't bother me with your shit. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said, adding that the company has been working on a number of projects in the past few years.
It is also at this moment that Wu Ting realized that the original two people in addition to arguing with each other as if there is really nothing to communicate, and has been plagued by their own, so that they live every day unhappy things in his eyes is just a broken thing.
In fact, how the two people came to this point Wu Ting also do not know, she only knows that the two people once sweet, like paint like glue days have gone, the rest is just day after day of quarrels and cold war.
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I don't know if it's because Zhao Yu's manliness has kicked in and he thinks his own affairs are the most important, or if he's determined that Wu Ting won't leave him. In any case, the current Zhao Yu can not see Wu Ting in the family suffered the wrongs, and even more can not feel Wu Ting give up their own future pain.
In short, Wu Ting is not happy at all.
And living with someone who doesn't even care about his own sorrows and joys will really be happy? The answer is definitely no.
At one time, Wu Ting was confident and glowing, but now her cousin is haggard and dull-eyed.
At one time, although the Wu Ting's salary is not high, but in the work is quite good, now Wu Ting go out to buy food without makeup, every day to put up with the mother-in-law's difficult and by some family trivia occupied most of the time.
All in all, everything about being young has nothing to do with Wu Ting.
Wu Ting finally filed for divorce, the two did not have any property disputes, she chose to net out of the house, her attitude is very resolute, let Zhao Yu how to retain.
Zhao Yu did give Wu Ting the wedding of a lifetime, and had also impressed Wu Ting with a sincere confession. But the couple recognized as the most compatible did not go to the end, just two years divorced.
Wu Ting's love for Zhao Yu in every single tear but can not be comforted at night a little bit of passing, in every time by the mother-in-law condemnation but can not get his help a little bit of being consumed, in every time they and he mentioned the idea of going to work, but only to get a little bit of perfunctory when disappeared.
Just like the experiment of boiling a frog in warm water, Wu Ting's love for Zhao Yu didn't disappear all at once, but disappeared little by little in the accumulation of all the unhappiness of these two years.
Wu Ting may remember the romance and flutter that Zhao Yu had given her for the rest of her life, but she will never love him again.
Love can happen in a moment, but not love is a little bit of accumulation.