You will become less confident, worried about gains and losses, indecisive, and incapable of autonomy. These are the results of parents' excessive intervention in their children. There is a Chinese idiom that says it very well, which is called precepts and deeds. The influence of parents on their children It is permanent and irreversible. No matter how hard you work hard, you will still have the shadow of your parents to some extent. Parents have a great influence on their children. If parents interfere too much in their children's lives, it will cause social problems. The giant baby accomplishes nothing in the end.
In the face of excessive interference from our parents, we must be brave enough to say no. This is for their sake and for ours. Don’t resist because the other person is our parent. We should honor our parents, but not Listen to what you are told. Adults should have their own ideas and be able to stick to them.
1. Let parents have their own social life and life
Many parents always like to give pointers to their children’s lives, ranging from getting a wife and getting married, to washing and cooking, etc. Chinese-style one-stop service, but what parents pay for is often not the result they want, so we have to let parents have their own lives, so that they will not interfere too much in their children's lives, such as leisure time You can use your time to travel, square dance, play cards, etc.
2. Children must make appropriate resistance
You must remember that when you come into this world, you are an independent individual with your own ideas. When your parents’ interference has affected your When it comes to your own life, you should let your parents know and make appropriate resistance. I don't think this kind of resistance will destroy everyone's family relationships. On the contrary, this kind of resistance can make your parents respect you more and make them live more comfortably.
3. Live your life well
My parents want us to live a stable life and not suffer so much. The reason why they are always worried about us is because We have accomplished nothing now. When they all die, who will take care of you? When we think of this, the problem will be easily solved. That is to take good care of yourself and live a good life, so that your parents will not have too many children. Interfering with your own freedom.