"Time is killing pigs, it really hurts."
"Many people can't recognize who is who."
"The screen is small and fresh, how green we were then!"
"Now our youngest is close to three, all in their early twenties!"
Everyone is feeling that time flies and personnel are different.
Yes, time flies. I have been working for nearly eight years. I still remember my college days and the first time I joined the company. Suddenly, I am not the same as I was in the original society.
Faced with the fact that I am getting older, I have been dissatisfied and slightly sour. I will be unhappy because I am called "aunt" and I will be inexplicably nervous because of a wrinkle in the corner of my eye.
Envy those passing boys and girls, they are full of youth and collagen; Envy those teenagers who ride bicycles and fly by like the wind. They have inexhaustible energy and unlimited possibilities for the future. ...
I tried my best to catch the tail of youth, but by the age of 30, my body and mind had matured a lot, and I was able to gradually face up to the fact of "getting old slowly". Birth, old age, illness and death are natural laws. Everyone has been young, and everyone will get old. Why bother? Why care?
As the ancients said, business is ruined by fun. What we have to think about is how to live, in order to give life its proper meaning, so as not to waste time, waste time and live up to the years. Looking back on these years, I can still smile.
Some people live to be 70 to 80 years old, but they spend most of their lives doing nothing and coming into this world for nothing. Some people have only lived for twenty or thirty years, but they have made great efforts to shine and left a deep impression in history.
Wang Bo, a poet in the early Tang Dynasty, left many excellent works in his short 27-year career, especially his Preface to Wang Tengting, which is our cultural treasure. Bella died at the age of 32, but in the process of fighting the disease, she still insisted on singing hard. Her songs, such as Pictures, Lust for Beauty, are household names.
One is to have a goal and find the right direction. In my opinion, we should do addition in the early stage of life and subtraction in the middle and late stage. Before graduation, you can try in many ways and develop in many ways, and explore what you are really good at and interested in while enriching your experience and increasing your knowledge. When you graduate, you should do subtraction slowly, make clear what you want to do and what kind of person you want to be in the future, then eliminate interference and concentrate on this goal. A little knowledge is better than a little skill.
The second is to have a plan and form the habit of acting according to the plan. If everything is predicted, it will be ruined. It is necessary to break down the goal into several specific controllable small goals, and then make your own annual plan, weekly plan and daily plan around these small goals. Complete the small goal step by step and approach the big goal.
Everyone has only 24 hours a day. Where you spend your time, your achievements are there. If you brush your mobile phone, play games and watch TV every night, one night will pass, day after day, and one year later you will get nothing but dark circles. If you exercise for half an hour, learn English for half an hour and read books for one hour every night, you still have a lot of time to play freely. A year later, you can at least have a chubby figure, speak fluent English, and you have finished reading several books. This is the simple difference between a plan and no plan.
The third is perseverance, and you can't give up halfway when you encounter setbacks. In the process of pursuing our dreams, we will always encounter such difficulties and challenges. Some people shrink back, doubt, deny or even give up, while others stick to their teeth and eventually have a bright future. Jay Chou, the king of music, was once disheartened because his works were rejected one after another in his early years. The famous director Ang Lee once thought about giving up his film career and studying computer technology instead. Fortunately, all of them persisted, and today's glory was achieved.
I often doubt my writing ability and think that I may not be the material at all, but I believe that hard work is more important than talent, so although it is difficult, I never want to give up.
Some young people around me are obviously only in their early twenties, but looking at their lives, they are lazy and indulgent in work every day, or stay at home to watch movies and play games, or go out to eat, drink and play mahjong with friends, and always look listless and uninterested in anything. I seem to see their state after ten or twenty years, fat, greasy, numb and boring.
On the other hand, a colleague who is in his forties but still looks like his early thirties, besides working hard, tries to run his own small sideline. She has opened a teahouse and a jewelry store in partnership with friends, traveled with her family on holidays, and even took her children to class to learn piano and Latin. She is exquisitely dressed and energetic, more sunny and energetic than many young people.
First, we should get rid of comfort and love to toss. There is no contradiction between tossing and subtracting. All we have to do is focus on one or two goals and then revolve around them. It is human nature to relax and hate work, and it is not easy to force yourself to jump out of the comfort zone. But opportunities belong to those who are prepared, and no one can succeed casually.
If you want to be promoted and get a raise, you should not only work hard, but also improve your academic qualifications and professional titles, and strive to obtain various qualification certificates. If you want to lose weight, in addition to controlling your diet, you can also apply for a fitness card to go to the gym to exercise, ask friends out to climb mountains, run, swim, play ball, ride a bike, and even go to the square dance with your aunts.
Second, we should keep pace with the times and love learning. There is no end to learning and no end to career. In order to recharge your hobbies or professional problems at work, you can sign up for interest classes, buy online courses, or look for free teaching resources online.
Because I sometimes use PPT in my work, I feel that my PPT is unremarkable and has no bright spots, so I went online to watch several courses on how to make beautiful PPT, and I benefited a lot later. Although English seems useless at work, one of my classmates insisted on studying, took the IELTS test, and then got a smooth promotion when the company expanded its business. What we learn is not useless, and one day it will come in handy inadvertently.
Third, stay away from vulgar tastes and be temperate. Some young people get into many bad habits as soon as they leave society, such as smoking, drinking, playing cards and gambling ... over time, it is difficult to recover. We should be alert to the erosion of those ethos and cultivate healthy hobbies. Although it is not a low-level interest to pursue drama and play games, we should also be temperate and not forget to eat and sleep or waste time.
At the same age, there is really a big difference between what can be maintained and what cannot be maintained, such as Degang Guo and Jimmy Lin, Huang Xiaoming and Bo Huang, Jiro Wang and Song Xiaobao. Nie Yuan, who became popular recently, played an emperor in his forties. Zhang Tie-Lin and Chen Jianbin played opposite heroines like father and daughter. He and the heroine are like lovers, and netizens shout sweet. If a person wants to look younger than his actual age, in addition to congenital factors, self-maintenance after tomorrow is also very important.
First, we must keep exercising and find a suitable exercise method. When was the last time you ran? When was the last time you went to the gym? Many people use "busy" and "tired" as an excuse after going to work, and lack exercise all the year round, which leads to physical deformation, while those who insist on exercising can't see many traces of years.
I have a colleague who used to be fat. After he decided to lose weight, he got a fitness card and insisted on going to the gym for an hour every day. After half a year, he lost 28 Jin. Now everyone exclaims that he is getting younger and younger. If you don't have time to go out to exercise, you can also use your spare time to exercise at home, buy a yoga mat and the next sports APP.
Second, we must ensure sleep and find effective ways to avoid staying up late. The harm of staying up late is well known, so it is needless to say. People who don't rest well for a long time will have a dim face and listless spirit, and problems such as dark circles, chloasma and wrinkles will gradually appear, and even expensive skin care products will be difficult to repair. Personally, the most effective way I have tried to avoid staying up late is to take a bath early. I used to take a shower before I went to bed, so I didn't take a shower until almost 1 am. Now when I come back, I always take a shower before doing other things, so that I can go to bed on time.
Third, take good care of your skin and learn to be a more refined person. I didn't know anything about skin care before I didn't even know facial cleanser had amino acids and soap bases. Later, I read the fashion column and began to pay attention to beauty and skin care. I used to be teased by my friends for wearing too rustic clothes, but I can't improve this thing overnight, so I used the most stupid method-refer to Taobao seller show from head to toe! Everyone has a love of beauty. Being an exquisite man or woman will make others feel happy and confident.
Fourth, we should maintain self-discipline and not covet temporary pleasure. There is a saying on Keep: self-discipline gives me freedom. Indeed, a self-disciplined life makes the body and mind more comfortable. I am more disciplined on weekdays than on weekends. On weekends, I tend to indulge myself I stay at home to catch up with the drama and overeat, so I always feel headache and discomfort. Indulge yourself can only get temporary happiness, and then there will be greater emptiness and regret.
It's a pity that the beauty is dying and the general is bald. Go with the flow and live an empty life, and you will be afraid of getting old. If we have a clear direction and live a full life, we will be grateful for the years and let us grow up like this.