Elders like to make decisions for you. Elders introduced to you, that they are very satisfied, if you have other ideas, surely will count you down, said you are too picky, even if you fall in love, still can't do without the participation of the elders, they will be from your relationship to get married to the big and small things have to be involved in, and even after the marriage of your life, there will be their involvement, because they feel that this is something that they make it possible, so they have the right and obligation to continue to follow up and even continue to make decisions for you. Follow up, and even continue to make decisions for you, this is absolutely unacceptable to me, no matter how good the other side of the conditions, married life is, after all, a matter of two people, if you have to be in charge of your life by someone else, that marriage and what freedom it?
The elders introduced a very stressful, only to see a side immediately called to ask how you feel, if you refuse to persuade you or call your parents to say how good the other side, and then you have to be sarcastic about what you want to find the rich, the rich will not be dedicated, as long as you are a little bit of your poor it does not matter! What a mess, it's really inexplicable, I told my mom directly, and then refused all blind dates, nosy really.
Many elders introduced, and even simply have not seen this person, a time in the square dance, walk, meet people of the same age when the market, chatting about relatives and children have not seen the face of the children dare to introduce, but also dare to threaten to know the roots of the bottom. Anyway, there is no cost, not to the child's parents can brag about how much they care about the whole human condition, in case the blind cat meets the dead rat into a "thank you matchmaker fee" to earn a lump sum, is not it beautiful?