Why do women choose to cheat on their marriage in middle age? What the hell is she?

1: Cheating if nothing happens: women have too much free time and their children are married, so there is nothing to worry about. Because there is nothing to do, women usually have more spare time to go out and play or dance in square dance. Of course, there will definitely be men among them, but when they meet humorous men, they will be easily tempted, leading to divorce and derailment. Because men spend time with her and do some interesting things, they can have more * * * to talk about the same topic. But her husband can't give these things.

2. Husband's indifference: people get along with each other for a long time in middle age. To tell the truth, many couples are emotionally fragile, leaving only affection and tired aesthetics. There will be many things that don't care about women and don't like women's verbosity. However, after getting along for so long, some shortcomings of my husband have been tolerated enough. When a man sends warmth and cares about himself from time to time, if both sides have families, it is easy to become a secret love.

3. Men cheat first: women feel that people are getting worse every day in middle age, so is life, and so is body and mind. When they were young, they were willing to give everything for their families, but they never complained. When they watch their wrinkles start to climb a little, men will abandon their wives. Most men are like this. They have long been a couple in name only, and they have gradually come to the end of their love and just divorced. At this time, men are looking for a mistress outside, and women will find one in a rage. No matter how long you know each other, you will have sex with your lover. Even if it is balanced, it is still unhappy.

If the relationship between two people really has problems, if they want to continue, they must solve their own problems. If we use the extreme way of derailment to solve it, it will only get worse and worse, leading to a real deviation from each other. If you really don't love, it's better to let go early, which is also a responsibility for both sides. The fatigue period of marriage is really terrible. Don't make each other so miserable.