For most people, life has never been hard.
We can only work harder and go further, there is still a long, long way to go, there is no end to this road.
I remember Tong Tong said a paragraph: the Internet on the dumping of the paragraph on what is good, the view of things are not the same is very normal, I have not seen your sea, you do not understand I have seen the sky ~ why have to force other people to do the same with their own
A lot of Chinese, a lifetime of the enemy with the ordinary.
We, hate that unsuccessful self.
We, complain about that unsuccessful child.
For example, I am particularly envious of people who speak good English, looking at them full of courage to stand in front, explaining the translation. I was so envious. Then decided, I also want to learn English well.
But in this world, not everything can be realized by effort, I have tried, more often than not, I can not help.
The language also requires interest and talent, and people and enthusiastic offer a lot of advice, watching American dramas, listening to English songs. But I really don't want to watch it, I can't get into it, and I only have the ability to cope with the exam.
When I was a child, I began to contact the English language, and there is no formal English teacher to teach, the teacher reads the bad, put on the tape recorder, and the tape to read together. I've been following my own imaginary pronunciation to imitate.
In life, there are a lot of things that we can't do anything about, and when we can't control the outcome, we can only say that we can do our best, and listen to God's will.
In many cases, reconcile with yourself and accept your own mediocrity.
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I read on Pick Up the Pieces that the writer Liang Xiaosheng was invited to a university to hold a lecture, and when he was talking to the students, a boy made a shocking remark: "If I can't get out of mediocrity by the age of 30, or at the latest by the age of 35, then I'll kill myself."
Liang Xiaosheng asked, "Then what is extraordinary?"
"To have a certain social status, to have a sizable amount of money, or to hold a certain amount of power ......"
Later, when Liang Xiaosheng received an American friend.
The friend asked, "You Chinese people seem to be secretly afraid of something, what is it?"
Liang answered: "Fear of an ordinary thing."
My friend asked, "What is it?"
Liang Xiaosheng said, "It is the life of ordinary people itself."
My friend was incredibly surprised: "It's incomprehensible, most of us Americans are quite willing to be ordinary people, to live an ordinary life, to walk through an ordinary life. Do you guys really think that ordinary is so bad that it should be lumped in with the terrible?"
But isn't it?
We're not afraid to die, just to be ordinary.
I want to say: a lot of goals can not be achieved just by hard work.
From childhood to adulthood, the question we are asked most often is: "What is your dream?"
We scrambled to answer:
"I want to be a star", "I want to be an entrepreneur" ...... If your dream is just to be an ordinary person. you will be scoffed at by elders and teachers.
From childhood to adulthood, we have been taught in this way to be an ordinary person who is not willing to be ordinary. So we have high expectations of ourselves, and the neighbor's kid becomes our enemy.
When we can't fulfill our own expectations, we put them on our children and parents. But we forget or overlook one thing: most of one's life is ordinary.
We work so hard, but only to become an ordinary person.
Nowadays, parents, habitually show their talent in the child's name, even if it is poetic, can not escape the old age, to become a square dance of a certain aunt.
One day, they will become the father who looks at his daughter's swing,
Or they will become a woman who silently folds her shirt and thinks about the three meals a day, sooner or later.
Perhaps the most important thing in a person's life
is to recognize oneself as an ordinary person.
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Zhou Guoping said, "There are three times of growth in life:
One is when you find that you are no longer the center of the world,
the second is when you find that there is nothing you can do with any more effort,
the third is when you accept your own ordinariness and go to enjoy it."
Accepting the ordinary is more important than rising above it.
Accepting ordinariness means knowing, "The courage to recognize and accept your own ordinariness is the true sincerity to life."
"Only by accepting our own ordinariness can we truly plan for the future rationally."
Our mothers and fathers were ordinary in this life, but I still think they were great.
Don't make an enemy of your ordinary child, don't make an enemy of your ordinary self,
accept an ordinary child when your son or daughter is not pushing their parents to succeed.
If we can't be poets,
we can still be poetic.
Article / Achu girl