The circle of friends is often screened by various chicken soup texts. For example, if you haven't succeeded by the age of 30, there is no hope; Your peers are abandoning you, and people over 45 have no new ideas.
In fact, what you see and hear are mostly gimmicks of merchants selling anxiety and creating panic.
Young and promising, young elite, is a topic that the media never tires of talking about. However, life is not a race, but a journey, and the success or failure of life should not be judged by age. At any time, everyone can explore their own advantages, release their unique potential in their favorite and suitable fields, and live a real and colorful life.
0 1. Life doesn't start too late.
No one stipulates what you must do at what age. If you want to do it, you can start now.
Mary Robertson Moses was born on a farm and later went to an art school. In her seventies, because of physical reasons, she couldn't hold the needle, so she picked up a pen and taught herself to draw. In the last twenty years of her life, she left more than 1600 oil paintings and became one of the most prolific original painters in America. She often said, "Life never starts too late. If we do what we like, God will open the door to success for us. "
In the early years, we missed the success we wanted for various reasons. However, in this life marathon, no one knows what changes will take place in the middle and what opportunities will be ushered in before the end.
The first thing that ages in life is not appearance, but courage to walk the line. Grandma Moses's story tells us that there is no such thing as failure in life. Even if we can't be young and promising, as long as we still have hope for life and continue to act, we can still shine in the second half of our lives.
You can work hard on the road of life and leave the rest to time. Because life doesn't start too late, don't stop after the important start.
02. If you work hard, you will always get something.
Jiang, who is called "legendary grandma" by netizens, has refreshed the public's cognition of "nothing to walk the dog and dance square dance" for the elderly. Her motto is: "Don't be afraid to start late and don't be lazy." It also encouraged a large number of young people struggling on the food and clothing line.
Jiang's grandmother was born in 1937. At the age of 60, his wife died unexpectedly. She was in pain. In order to divert her attention and relieve her pain, her daughter encouraged her to learn to read. Grandma Jiang is very careful and created her own allegro literacy method. At the age of 75, she began to learn to write with the help of her daughter. Five works, such as "In Times of Chaos and Poverty", have been published and reported by many TV media.
Her writing does not judge, but only describes. Every paragraph is her original life, so it is very popular with the public. Grandma Jiang made herself today with her real experiences, stories and love for life.
In fact, everyone's experience is a fortune, and the truly valuable things are often buried the deepest. For most ordinary people, although the hardships in ordinary life are constant, it is precisely these many hardships that make them more peaceful when they are right and more tenacious when they are wrong.
We don't have the aura and glory of being famous young, but we have rich life accumulation, a calm attitude towards life and perseverance in facing difficulties. Don't be afraid to start late, don't be lazy, as long as you are willing to work hard, we can reach the peak of life. Because, if you work hard, you will always get something.
03, you should be late.
Zuo was a famous minister in the late Qing Dynasty. But when he was young, he tried again and again. It was not until he was 4 1 year-old that he was promoted to be the counselor of Hunan Governor Zhang. He was nearly half a year old when he fought the Taiping Army. But it was this war that made him famous.
There is also a short story about Zuo: when the examination room is not satisfactory, he studies hard until late at night every day. One day, a thief was found at home. It is said that the thief was hiding on the beam at that time, ready to wait for Zuo to go to bed and wait for an opportunity to start. But contrary to expectations, Zuo didn't want to rest until after midnight. The thief was in a hurry and shouted on the beam, Why are you so stupid? I can recite it. He recited the article word for word.
Why can such a stupid Zuo achieve such high achievements?
Ricky. Calgard said: Compared with those who are young and promising, people who are late bloomers have more endurance, endless motivation and lasting vitality. They all have lifelong growth thinking and ability, and they are all potential stocks in the future.
Zuo used the blank period of his life to "concentrate on farming and read widely" when others were not optimistic. He is calm, smart and has stronger toughness than ordinary people, and finally made a beautiful turnaround in the second half of his life.
The biggest difference between people is that some people run fast and others run slowly, which depends on everyone's physique and development speed, so there is no need to be anxious or sad. Just like Zuo, in his own field, he will keep accumulating and advancing, and every little makes a mickle, and finally he will usher in his own highlight moment.
"If the sky is going to fall to the people of Sri Lanka, we must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, and starve their bodies." So, if you are a big player, you should be late.
There is such a saying in "Small Window Quiet Record Awakening": "Those who stay long will fly high; The first person to open, thank you separately. "
What is now used to describe the accumulation of strength during the dormant period can often accumulate thick and thin hair, and what shows its edge prematurely often withers quickly.
Therefore, we should learn from the camels in the desert, hold our breath, walk slowly, chew slowly, and firmly believe that we will keep walking until we are full.
In this world, everyone has his own rhythm. We don't have to envy those young and promising people, even if they are ordinary. As long as we find what we love from the heart and practice constantly, we can accumulate wealth and become masters in the eyes of others.
What's wrong with not being young and having no future? Gan Kun is undecided, you and I are both dark horses!