What to do when the couple's relationship fades after marriage

Don't easily say the word divorce There is no quarrel between couples, not quarrel couples are not called couples. However, quarrel to quarrel, can not hold a grudge! Quarrels must not show off a moment of tongue, open mouth said divorce, we must know, who all have self-esteem, the earth is less who are the same turn. Quarrel does not matter, remember to take the initiative to say sorry to each other after the fight. Don't think it's not your fault, if you can endure a step back then, this fight is certainly not up. To take the initiative and each other to analyze the reasons for your quarrel, and think about how to avoid a quarrel next time you encounter a similar situation.　 Stay away from electronic temptations If one or both spouses are always buried in their cell phones, then it is more likely to bring about some relationship problems. A new study from Boston University found that frequent use of social networks (including cell phones and computers), often in front of a partner, can negatively impact overall marital happiness and quality of life for couples. Another analysis found a correlation between frequent use of social networks and higher divorce rates. Therefore, in today's digital age, it's best for couples*** to use less or no digital products such as cell phones or computers during their time together, and to do more things with their partners that are beneficial to increasing couple interaction. For example, after dinner, go to the lake or park for a walk and chat.　 Walk shoulder-to-shoulder or hold hands Surveys show that couples who hold hands while walking have a stronger sense of well-being than those who walk side-by-side. Walking side by side can increase physical contact, but also increase the time to share and exchange, so that you feel in a romantic "old age".　 Mutual consideration and care Both men and women may look tough on the surface in society. However, our hearts are very weak, our hearts, our emotions, are like children, always longing for care, comfort, love. It's the same for anyone. Since this is the case, we just have to go and be more considerate, caring, and nurturing to each other. Because only in this way, you can get the same return from each other. My friend, please remember: we human beings, no matter what kind of relationship we have with each other, will always follow the principle of the relationship of equal exchange between each other. So, when you want to get something from others you have to give first, don't worry that the other person will not give back, he/she will, how much you give, he/she will return how much, human nature is like this.　 Respect each other in front of each other's friends Let the other person have enough face in front of his/her friends, so that the other person's friends envy him/her for finding a good husband or wife. Whether you go with the other person to attend the other person's friends' party or the other person's friends come to visit your home, you must remember to show your own merits in front of the other person's friends. Wives can take the initiative to mingle with other ladies when attending their husbands' friends' parties, don't stick to your husband's side all the time, which will make his friends feel that you are whiny.　Of course, when you enter the door to hold your husband's arm to go in, and the other ladies chatting with them when you want to praise your husband in front of them unobtrusively, and occasionally look over to his side. When your husband's friends come over to the house to play, you are more likely to fully demonstrate your ability to be a housewife, so that his buddies can say from the bottom of their hearts that he has found a really good wife. On the contrary, the husband should also do the same, to let your wife in front of her little sisters sunshine her happiness.　Married couples after the relationship faded how to do 2 A woman after marriage how to run a marriage?　 1, re-establish their own attraction What if the couple's feelings fade? The couple will have no feelings, no temptation between each other is very important cause. Because there is no temptation between each other later, the other party is not easy to care very much about you, the most is to keep a long-term relationship out of the habitual. (Marriage emotional confusion plus mentor / letter, one-on-one free analysis) and if you want to relationship salvage, then you need to rebuild their own seductive power, give your `other half can care to you, so that we can start again.　You can learn to make changes, it has long been accustomed to washing clothes and cooking, you can dress yourself beautifully, and many of the pots and pans to go to the square dance, so you, too, have a perfect style.　 2, more and their other half of the heart communication Emotion will be due to frequent disputes and subside, but also due to friendly interaction and enhancement. But you, then, need to understand how to get along with this love bad guy.　In the usual daily life, want to save the marriage, you can pay more attention to him, more grasp his thoughts, when everyone produces a dispute situation, you do not have to argue with the other side of the high voice, must fight for a win or lose. If you calm down, with a gentle tone of voice and the other side of the communication exchange, you can work together to find a solution to the problem, followed by a stronger relationship.　 Second, how to do when the couple's relationship fades?　 1, remembering the good memories of the past Every relationship, have its unknown story, past sweetness may be vivid, perhaps as the past cloud smoke. Whenever two people sit together, eat, drink tea, on the rice tea will be those good stories revisited.　Can recall the place together, romantic, cozy can, as long as happy, are worth to revisit the good memories. You can also think about the friends you have made together, some impulsive, rebellious, nonsensical things you have done, those happy memories, as if to remind you of the past is so happy.　This is a great way to look back at what you have been through and to touch each other's hearts. Do not be afraid of the other party's rejection and refusal, the more rejected with your memories, the more it shows that TA inner guilt, with mood swings, naturally, there is love.　 2, create a short time away from two people together for a long time will find the marriage flat, feelings gradually become boring. This is because the two people long tired together, accustomed to each other's existence, will be each other's everything to understand thoroughly, this time the love has been from lovers like love to loved ones like attachment.　And two people every day together, will certainly produce some contradictions, no matter how big or small, if not resolved in a timely manner, accumulated for a long time will lead to feelings tasteless. This time to maintain the marriage of two people is basically the only remaining advantages of each other, and is the attachment between each other.　At this time, the best solution is to create a short period of time away from each other. I believe that "distance produces beauty" this sentence have heard, to a small parting, reunion time slightly change their own decoration, may be able to outweigh the joy brought by the newlyweds.　 3, to a two people traveling I believe that many people know, travel, is a kind of open mind, expand the horizons of the practice. In the journey, you can meet a lot of interesting people, interesting things, of course, you can also meet a lot of beautiful scenery.　Two people **** together to challenge the unpredictable mystery of the journey, put the reality of the problem aside for the time being, try to express their feelings.　Two people working together to complete this journey, which I call "The Journey of Return". It is a journey back to the beginning of what was good, to the passion that was once there. This journey is filled with a sense of responsibility, care and protection, constantly opening your heart and enjoying the journey.　This is one of the most effective ways to awaken a passion; people always show their softer side when they are relaxed and summon their deepest longings. Understand this longing, mutual satisfaction, and revisit the passion and longing once.　 4, carefully prepared to surprise people with gifts Forget how long you have not received a gift from your partner? Forget how long you have not given each other gifts, right? Once in love, hate to turn themselves into the best gift to each other. After being together for a long time, but the companionship becomes a habit, even the idea of "gift" to be cut off.　When the other person feels that the only thing left between you is dull, and begin to want to escape from the marriage, carefully prepare a gift. This gift has its own story and meaning.　Touching the other person rekindles the fire of love, and that's when the bond between you is one more layer, and when it's the strongest one. Love love!　 5, personally do an exquisite dinner for two At home on the table, set up candles, the previous you are eating home-cooked Chinese food, this time, we can try to come to a meal of Western food. Do-it-yourself fried steak, buy a bottle of red wine, will bring each other into the romantic atmosphere you create, drinking wine, enjoying this sudden change.　Two people may renew the spark of love in this dinner date, or maybe they will think more about the problems that arise between two people. In short, it's a rare opportunity to enhance the relationship.　In fact, the reason why marriages grow flat is because after marriage, there is not only love in life, but also life and many responsibilities. These things mixed in, apportioning the lover's energy, and therefore can only choose to return to the bland.　Learn to create the atmosphere of the two together, even if it is only once a month to change, can bring a little new ideas for life. In this "war" of rekindling love, the only way to win is to change. On this day, other factors will be eliminated, only the two of you remain.