Everyone wants to be affirmed and praised by others. It's not that you should ignore these expressions when you are together. I have seen many couples ignore the word respect, scold each other and use all kinds of vulgar language once their relationship escalates. Maybe they think that hitting is kissing and scolding, but in fact, long-term relationships are generally based on respect. Respect is not only vulgar in language, but also sincere praise in language. Everyone wants to hear good things, and they come from the beloved people. Remember that love needs to be preserved.
2. Give more respect than expected.
In the relationship between men and women, smart people will know what they want from each other according to the actual situation, such as the reaction on each other's face and behavior. And keep saying that for each other's sake, for this good relationship, it will only be counterproductive. Maybe you don't know, when you say it again, your spouse has hung up the determination to improve. It is your constant criticism and criticism that led to the failure of your original good wishes.
3. Harmony rather than clingy
Getting along too well has become clingy and dependent. Get along too independently, become no intersection, and finally part ways. A healthy love relationship has its own life circle and pursuit. You can introduce your friends to each other and show each other your dreams, but it is not necessary for all of you to attend. Everyone needs to have their own independent private space, which is the pure land for everyone to adjust their mood and start again when they are confused, so when the other party says "leave me alone" wearily, let it be quiet! Sometimes the other person just needs a space of solitude and peace. After you calm down, the other person will think that you are considerate and understand him.
4. Excellence takes the initiative
No matter work or life, any responsible man will not slack off. Especially with people you want to protect your life. A little more positive energy, a little more beautiful vision for the future. It is ok to reflect on yourself and change those bad habits left behind when you are single.
5. Have your own life. Improve and enrich yourself, and don't turn each other's lives upside down. Over time, both sides will keep fresh and contact with each other, as if opening the door to a new world.
6. Love is not a transaction. Everyone expresses love in different ways. Too much haggling will only hurt each other. If you don't want to regret it, you must do your best to be good to Ta.
7, don't control each other, don't try to change each other. Feelings are ties, not ties. The purpose of being together is to be happy and be yourself. Love is not the whole of your life. Don't interfere in each other's life too much, and don't just compromise and immerse yourself in touching yourself!
8. Don't expect too much from a perfect person. No one is perfect, and he is not so perfect, so don't expect the other person to be so perfect. After all, everyone has shortcomings, so be content. Choose two people to discover an interesting world together, not me to discover an interesting person.
9. Avoid inappropriate quarrels. It is inevitable to quarrel together, but the solution is also very important. If there is any contradiction, you'd better make it clear in person. When people are angry, they are emotionally unstable and easy to think, which makes people misunderstand each other's ideas. Don't talk about breaking up no matter how excited you are. When angry, the other person is easy to remember. If we break up, there will be a gap between us.